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Author:  Astoree [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  We are not having SEX
So. Long story short. I'm in a relationship with this HB7 for seven months now(I'm 20, and she's 19). We didn't have sex, and this post is all about that. I'm getting some weird statements from her, I want to know what to do.

So. We are planning to spend some time in apartment(That we already booked) in about three weeks from now, we booked five nights. When we discussed sex before(in the beginning of relationship), we both agreed we should wait for marriage, after few months into relationship she began to discuss sex more often, we had chances to have it(twice, when we had some privacy), but we didn't because she said she respects me too much to take it away from me(Virginity... Yea.. We're both virgins). After that, she engaged in sex talk again(more often) asking me if I think we will manage to wait before marriage, to which I responded in a way like:

"I hope so."
She replied with: "Honestly??!!? I don't think we will manage to wait for marriage, but just please, keep in mind, when/if it happens, it has to be special."

I agreed by saying:"Babe, let's not plan this, I think we will both feel when the time will be right, and let's not make pressure on it."

Now. The one million dollar question. We are having this vacation very, very soon. And we just had a facebook conversation where she sent me links with sexy/hot underwear and sexy lingerie, she actually sent me a gallery with pictures of those underwear and every single of them has a number on it;

She said:" Pick five that you like the most." I did pick five of them I favour the most. After that, she asked me to write her a fantasy that I would like to come true when we will be in that apartment. While also saying things like:"I fantasies about us doing it on the bed, kitchen, floor, everywhere..." HERE IS THE THING I DON'T UDNERSTAND, so she continues her fantasy: "... But I didn't said It would happen when we will be in that apartment, I will come form work, candles will be placed everywhere, and I'm looking for you, then i will find a note on the table saying:'Dinners in bed', and then I'm coming to you, into the bedroom, I will find a rose on your cock, and then things will happen..."

After that, we continued to sex talk, but she started to say things like 'we are not in the rush, so every fantasy of ours remains a fantasy on some part. I don't have anything against it.'

I replied with:"Mee tooo *WINK, too bad you won't be able to resist the urge". Then she said:"I'm wondering if you will manage to resist me when you will hold me naked in ur hands."

Guys?! Sorry for long post, but what are my next moves here? Can you analyze this and give me a piece of a advice. I know about LMR, but this isn't that. She want's it, but I don't know. When she mentions it, what should I do? How should I act before we go on our vacation and before it?

Thank you for reading guys :)
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 11:46 pm ]
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definitely ake the pressure off yourself and her., especially verbally. Study some kino trchniques and escalate her physically, then pull away. You need to warm her up and get her used to physical contact.

Also, next time you are alone and kissing, press your hard dick into her and let her feel it through your pants. Then get up and say something like, I think this may be going too far, get up get a glass of water. Wait and re-engage her repeating the pressing. Then just sit up a few seonds later and pretend like you are carching your breath. You will be teasing her this way. This is a physical push pull.
Author:  neo87 [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 12:27 am ]
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Most likely she isn't a virgin. Are you planning on having sex with her before marriage?
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 1:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: We are not having SEX
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Most likely she isn't a virgin. Are you planning on having sex with her before marriage?
Cynical much? You're probably right.
Author:  neo87 [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 5:19 am ]
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Most likely she isn't a virgin. Are you planning on having sex with her before marriage?
Cynical much? You're probably right.
Not really, it's just that if she's more concerned about his virginity, and comfortable with sex talk she probably has had it before. Plus at 19 I remember alot of girls who claimed virgin status who werent lol. But even if she is, she's not waiting until marriage.OP, I disagree with your choice to remain a virgin but it's your choice. If you are serious about waiting till marriage, don't do have sex with her if it compromises your values. Can't believe I said that
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 5:57 am ]
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Most likely she isn't a virgin. Are you planning on having sex with her before marriage?
Cynical much? You're probably right.
Not really, it's just that if she's more concerned about his virginity, and comfortable with sex talk she probably has had it before. Plus at 19 I remember alot of girls who claimed virgin status who werent lol. But even if she is, she's not waiting until marriage.OP, I disagree with your choice to remain a virgin but it's your choice. If you are serious about waiting till marriage, don't do have sex with her if it compromises your values. Can't believe I said that
That's why I said cynical much. I know I am old, but I remember girls who claimed virginal status to their boyfriends who were definately not. And OP, you should really decide about waiting. If it is important to you and sex will compromise your values, than giving in is non-congruence. Personally, I would physically escalate and pull back like I said before and keep doing it.

Above all, don't let her play YOU. Girls, the sweetest, even most innocent seeming ones out there (these are the deadliest), can eat even well-seasoned men for lunch if you let them.
Author:  Astoree [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 2:01 pm ]
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Guys. I think you might be right. She was in a relationship with a guy which lasted two years, this guy who according to my GF had sex with 7 girls prior to her. Now, two years is really long, I somehow doubt she managed to stay a virgin if this guy had sex with seven different women before her. She dumped him, saying that he forced her to do things she didn't want to do. What do you think? Virgin or not?
Author:  luvmiddleage [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 6:09 pm ]
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Guys. I think you might be right. She was in a relationship with a guy which lasted two years, this guy who according to my GF had sex with 7 girls prior to her. Now, two years is really long, I somehow doubt she managed to stay a virgin if this guy had sex with seven different women before her. She dumped him, saying that he forced her to do things she didn't want to do. What do you think? Virgin or not?
I think you are way too young and inexperienced to do anything but get experienced, as is she. Just relax, go out, enjoy her company and above all, pursue other girls. Get some experience. If you and her are meant to be, it will happen, just make sure it is in 10 years or so when you can appreciate each other.
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