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| Author: | Suit up [ Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Should i forgive my GF? |
Hey guys, i need your help for one more time. I am 20 years old and i am a student in a university. For the last 3 week i am dating a 18 years old girl from my school. She is really cute and has beautiful blue eyes but she is very immature and irresponsible. She never had a boyfriend before and i am the first and only guy she ever kissed. Before i dated her, i was thinking the fact that i won't having sex for a long time but i get used to the idea. During our relationship, she did some thing i don't understand, like being too cold when we are among others friend or answering my msgs in a way that shows disinterest, or when i call her she talk to my like she is bored of me. I talk her 1-2 time about that stuff and she said to me that she doesn't know how to act properly or how to show me in more ways that she likes me. Two days ago she did something really bad to me. My roomate and i visited their residence ( she live with some others girls that we became friend with). I enter her room and she was watching a movie with her friends, she just say hi to me. i sat next to her on the couch and start playing with her hair and her hand. Then after a while she get up announcing to everyone that she is going to put her clothes into the washing machine. I told her i will go with her to help her and she told me that she didn't need my help and that i should stay in the room. After she left the room, i get a little upset (i didn't wanted to stay there wanting for her to come like a AFC) so get outside the room and i start talking to a girl in the kitchen. And i hear her talking and laughing with some guys that live with her. Later she ignores me all night (about 2 hours) and she hangout at the house withs these guys. She even makes to one of them (a good looking one) a tee. I get really mad but i didn't let anyone notice, instead i start DHV to the other girls and acting like i was having fun and i didn't cared about her ignoring me complete. Ten minutes before we left the house and return home she come and try to start talking to me and tease me. I ignored her and left the house without saying even goodbye to her. Later when i arrive home, i text her that i want to break up with her. She tells me why and being really sad about it, i told her just that i see she doesn't want this(the relationship) as much i do and that she prefer to hangout with other guys over me. Yesterday she came and talked to me and said to me she feel really sorry and that she make a huge mistake with out even realised it and that she want us to be together again and that she would never do anything like this and that she will try to change. I ask her to explain why she did it and why she sometimes acting like she doesn't like me. She told me that she doesn't know why she act like that and that she feel ashamed when her friend are with us. I told her that i want to go back but i can't because i fell betrayed and angry. And i told her that i need some time alone and then decide if we can be together again. What do you guys think? Should i give her a second chance? We have common friend and we can't avoid seeing each others. I want to go back with her because i like her and i know she is just too irresponsible and immature but in the other hand i feel like an AFC because she betrayed my trust and she did't respect me... Thanks for your time and text me your opinion. (I didn't learn seduction to have as much sex as possible, i learn so that i can make healthy and happy realationship:)) |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should i forgive my GF? |
If you feel threatened by her talking to other guys, you've got a lot of growing up to do. But breaking up with her has had the desired effect. So use it to to your advantage. Take her back if she promises not to disrespect you anymore. And have sex with her asap to seal the deal. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 9:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should i forgive my GF? |
read this post and let me know if you still have any further questions.. the-answer-to-your-relationship-vt185286.html |
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| Author: | chantos [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should i forgive my GF? |
Quote: i told her just that i see she doesn't want this(the relationship) as much i do and that she prefer to hangout with other guys over me.
never say this bro. you should never want the relationship more than her. instead say you're just not feeling it. be mysterious and vague. don't show too much emotion.Quote: I ask her to explain why she did it and why she sometimes acting like she doesn't like me.
again, bad form. sounds weak. Quote: I told her that i want to go back but i can't because i fell betrayed and angry. And i told her that i need some time alone and then decide if we can be together again.
again, you don't want to let her know she has power over you like that. instead frame it as though she disrespected you and you will not put it up with that shit. i'd go back with her but make clear boundaries and if she crosses them leave her immediately. if she's not going to respect your boundaries you will be miserable. but honestly dude you're 20 go out and fuck a bunch of girls. no relationship lasts like that between young people. there's just too much change taking place in your life and there are too many distractions. |
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