you forgot to mention the important part why she would be pissed off with you...

Ok I noticed my Short term girlfriend was acting distant and flaky (she is pregnant) so decided to do some research and came across this site where I learned she was more than likely going to break up with me, so i did some more reading about an hour ago she popped round to get bag she had left and on the way out said we need to have a long talk later, I said why cant we talk now while we are both here she brushed off the comment and said we will talk later I said to her I think I already know what its about you want to break up she said yes (even tho it destroyed me on the inside) I said ok well if thats what you want then ok I said it calmly and in a polite way I said id still like to attend the scans if that was ok she said yes and then she left.

about 10 minutes after she had left she sent me a text that said she was extremely pissed off with the way i acted it was like it didn't bother me and she has decided she doesn't want me at the scans and i only have myself to blame for the way i acted.

I replyed ok well if thats the way you feel then ok but could she get me a scan picture when she went and i would pay for it.

then got a message back saying she is blocking my number and blocking me on facebook.

my question is what would my next move be id like to work things out if possible if not id like to keep things on a civil level for the unborn child's sake.

sorry if this is the wrong place to post my head is just all over the place at the moment.

Thank you for reading and any advice or help would be amazing.

(also this is my first post so hello all)

from what i can understand is she is pissed off with me because i didnt break down and get emotional when she broke up with me. (which is some thing i would of done before reading this forum and others over the course of the day. but stayed strong as advised)

Oh, and FFS start using condoms and don't ever knock up a girl until you've known her a long time. Don't ever trust a girl that she's on birth control unless you are far enough along that you wouldn't mind a kid. Period.

You don't understand, why does she want to break up with you?

we did use protection but it broke

so did i act right in not showing emotions when she broke it off?

I think i understand what you mean by taking two steps back by the fact i asked to be there at the scan and showed it bothers me that i cant see the scan am very new to this as i only started reading this morning.

You did the correct thing by showing no emotions when she broke it off. Her not wanting you there is a punishment for not reacting the way that she wanted you to act.

At the end of the day, I'm not sure that she wanted to really break up with you. Pregnant women are hormonal and their emotions can be on overdrive. Today she can be blocking your calls and tomorrow she can be asking you to bring her nachos and wanting you to rub her belly. Remain unaffected, but be there for your child.

she said there was no spark between us any more. sex was always good and made sure she was taken care of multiple times every time if you get me also i treated her well breakfast in bed, romantic dinners ect...