You can always try to get a girlfriend that knows how to act when she's around you.

Its not that al all, weve been togheter for 4 years, shes just ignoring me and its not because she doesnt know how to act around me at all, weve had tons of good times togheter.

I dont want to end it, she also says she wants to work on our relationship but sitting next to a ghost is mopre fun .

So you're saying she ignores you by choice? She knows that you don't like it but she continues to do it, right? She knows you want to go out and have fun, but she doesn't want to do it? This doesn't sound like the behavior of a woman that really cares about how you feel in a relationship.

What you're describing isn't a person who is ignoring you to punish you for doing something wrong. She is actually ignoring you because she can get away with it if she wants to and knows that you'll still be there. You are the submissive one in the relationship and you'll never ever be happy as long as you are. She says she wants to work on the relationship, but all she is doing is keeping you on a string while you are on a forum trying to figure out how you can make her pay attention to you. If she really cared, she'd put her phone down when you walked in the room and ask what you wanted to do tonight, which would solve the problem.

Tons of good times together are just memories no matter how many years. You can have tons of good times with a woman that is willing to pay attention to you. You can have tons of good times with a woman who will do the things you like. Instead of hoping tomorrow would be a better day with her, you'd be looking forward to tomorrow with her.

I ujust ended it with her but shes still pretty much non responsive... she doesnt think i mean it but i dont want a relationshipship like this.