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Author:  Youssef [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Approval seeking switch

Hi,

Sometimes I think about what should I do when someone is trying to flip my approval seeking switch? I do it on girls sometimes and I get results. But, what should we do if someone tries to do the same on me?

What do You do in such situation?

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approval seeking switch

Quote:
Hi,

Sometimes I think about what should I do when someone is trying to flip my approval seeking switch? I do it on girls sometimes and I get results. But, what should we do if someone tries to do the same on me?

What do You do in such situation?

Example?

Author:  Melodical [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 6:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approval seeking switch

Ignore it, you don't need her approval. That makes you higher value and more attractive.

Author:  furtardo [ Sat Sep 06, 2014 5:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Approval seeking switch

Happened to me today at work..
I was in a meeting with my manager and he triggered the approval seeking triggers in me and I ended up over committing and feeling shitty on the drive back home..

I hope ignoring these triggers gets easier with awareness & practice.

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