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| Author: | lowriderzzz [ Sat Aug 30, 2014 2:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Chalenge escalating to sex -"im not very sexual": she says |
I'm "dating" this girl for a month or so far, but haven't F closed her so far. K closed her early on, but since then all that I attempt (physically) to go more sexual she draws back. And says things like "I'm not very sexual girl". I of course know that this is a total [click], and don't pay attention to it. I don't go pushy on her of course. Of course all the way I'm sub communicating that I have options of having sex else where and i'm not being needy. I challenged her with a statement sort of like she is probably too unskilled in sex, and that I want a more skilled woman. To which she just smiles and looks away. (and yes she seems unskilled but she is not virgin) initially i thought maybe i need to build more comfort with her, but its been already a month we know each other and we've seen enough times. To me looks like she tests me and tries to friend zones me, and I of course wont bite into that. I'm not going to react emotional or something like that, but somehow I need to make it clear for her that if she continues behaving like that I might end up having sex with some other chick. I'm a guy with morals and I don't really want to do that, but i'm not gonna end up having up a "dry" (so to speak) relationship. I know from experience - it is not a good deal. So anyone with some smart insights on the topic?... |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 6:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Chalenge escalating to sex -"im not very sexual": she sa |
You don't want to "screen" or qualify her on being sexual. She may be telling the truth and may even be self-conscious about it. Are you escalating with her a private sex location? If she pulls back, build more comfort and tell some deep comfort stories or find out more about then repeat until you have sex. |
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| Author: | lowriderzzz [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 8:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Chalenge escalating to sex -"im not very sexual": she sa |
Quote: You don't want to "screen" or qualify her on being sexual. She may be telling the truth and may even be self-conscious about it. Are you escalating with her a private sex location? If she pulls back, build more comfort and tell some deep comfort stories or find out more about then repeat until you have sex.
On private and on public as well. She tells the truth. What kind of deep stories?Last night even she remained to sleep in my home due to she forgot her keys in her place and didn't wanted to wake her roommates. The thing is we talked, listened to music, watched pictures (typical friend zone stuff - we've already done that plenty of times) but eventually we slept on different beds. I invited her to come in with the promised that i'm not gonna rush on her. She has cool personality, but I know her only for a month. She is either having sex elsewhere or is really not that sexual. Btw I'm sleeping naked and when we woke up she happened accidentally to see me naked for a moment and her reaction was..."euhhh. get dressed" (I told her earlier that sleep naked, so not to be surprised if she sees me) and after-all I'm in my house. It was the 1st time a girl comes to my place and we don't sleep together. Other times I've always managed to escalate and do my job... Me personally I don't think is good idea to continue dating her. I think she is either dating someone else or has feeling toward someone else. (actually she was telling me earlier that she "loved" some other guy) To which I don't replied anything I just let it pass by my ears. Ces la vie - life goes on |
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