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Author:  p_h [ Thu Jul 17, 2014 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  being in a relationship and seeing other women
Hi friends,

I have a gf almost 5 months now, but I feel like I am loosing many chances to meet other women, it's been a couple of girls in the last months that they showed interest in me but I didn't do anything.
I don't have a problem with my current gf, I just feel restricted, I also don't go out so much at night clubs as before I met her and don't meet so many girls as before I met her.
Do you have any suggestions about it? I would talk with her about it but I don't know what to say.
I haven't done anything until yet because I don't want to have arguments, drama, etc.
Author:  mach1 [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 1:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being in a relationship and seeing other women
So what you gonna say?...hey babe cool fucking ya but your getting in the way of my gaming other woman?

I see where your coming from but good luck explaining that to her!
Author:  p_h [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being in a relationship and seeing other women
yeah, in the beginning this was not a problem, I was comfortable and got lazy.
Now I notice I am not so happy with the situation. Thought about breaking up with her, but not sure I want to lose her...
Author:  mach1 [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 3:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being in a relationship and seeing other women
Sounds like you got 4 choices then mate

1) Carry on as you are
2) Carry on and cheat also
3) Suggest an open relationship
4) Leave her ass

Myself would prefer option 1 or 4 or at a push 2...not keen on open relationships unless just my end is open!
Author:  p_h [ Fri Jul 18, 2014 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being in a relationship and seeing other women
agree, the 1 and 4 are the most reasonable ways, have to decide what to do, cause the other day she suggested moving together and I don't really like this idea.
Author:  oceanx [ Sun Jul 20, 2014 7:03 pm ]
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Quote:
.not keen on open relationships unless just my end is open!
Truer words were never spoken :D
Author:  vhou812 [ Tue Jul 22, 2014 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: being in a relationship and seeing other women
It's pretty hypocritical to say you aren't keen on open relationships unless just your end is open. At least you can admit it. Personally I am in an open marriage, and only really struggle with the idea when she is having fun and I am not. But 90% of the "not being keen" is ones own insecurity. If she gets something from another man, it logically implies that she isn't getting whatever it is enough or at all from you. There might be some things you can give her, might be other things that you can't or won't. If the latter, I never tell my wife she can't have it, because when there are things I want that she doesn't or can't give, I'd rather get it elsewhere than go without.

For sure, the best thing you can do is tell her honestly how you feel. Perhaps your relationship has just gotten mundane enough that you are bored. Could be that you truly are one to prefer open relationships. But for sure not telling her the truth about how you feel means sooner or later your relationship will be over, and possibly not on good terms at all.
Author:  p_h [ Tue Jul 22, 2014 8:52 pm ]
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tried to tell her smt, and she started crying. I stopped the conversation and didn't talk about it again
Author:  GamesSN [ Tue Jul 22, 2014 8:55 pm ]
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Just dump her. You obviously don't want to be in a relationship at the moment so why fool yourself and her? Just end it and keep in touch, hang out and shit and you can still bang her just be tactile about how you handle it so she doesn't hate you.
Author:  mach1 [ Wed Jul 23, 2014 11:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: being in a relationship and seeing other women
Quote:
It's pretty hypocritical to say you aren't keen on open relationships unless just your end is open. At least you can admit it. Personally I am in an open marriage, and only really struggle with the idea when she is having fun and I am not. But 90% of the "not being keen" is ones own insecurity. If she gets something from another man, it logically implies that she isn't getting whatever it is enough or at all from you. There might be some things you can give her, might be other things that you can't or won't. If the latter, I never tell my wife she can't have it, because when there are things I want that she doesn't or can't give, I'd rather get it elsewhere than go without.

For sure, the best thing you can do is tell her honestly how you feel. Perhaps your relationship has just gotten mundane enough that you are bored. Could be that you truly are one to prefer open relationships. But for sure not telling her the truth about how you feel means sooner or later your relationship will be over, and possibly not on good terms at all.
Hmmm I suppose your point is possibly valid about my insecurity...as I am not perfect. However people may call me old fashioned etc but I don't like the idea of my girl or even worse wife be fucked by a next man! But its personal choice is it not?
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