Stop responding. You sound like a little bitch. You tried to calmly and briefly explain once, she obviously lacks trust and is VERY insecure. F*ck that chick.

I'd like to respond to her quickly.

So I wrote a birthday message to a mutual friend, Adelina, which said,

"Happy Birthday huni :*"

Then out of the blue, about an hour later I get this facebook message;

Girlfriend
“your huni? I don t believe it all that time you were flirting behind my back, I should have guessed, you desappoint me. you're like all other jerk I knew, you don t deserve me my love and trust. do not talk to me ever again. I hate yu.”

Me (3way)
“seriously you trust me that little?
Ask Adelina if you want. I've barely spoken to her”

Girlfriend
“go to hell
no baby i don t want to bother you sweet little huni”

Me (3way)
“it was a happy birthday message
I haven't spoken to the girl this year
yes it was slightly flirtatious but I'm not cheating on you. I don't cheat.”

Girlfriend
“come on i m not that stupid you did n t talk to her and you call her huni”

Me (3way)
“Ons you told Maher you loved him in one of your messages.
I'm not cheating on you
It was just a flirtatious comment”

Me (3way)
“I shouldn't have to explain myself this much. I don't cheat.”
Girlfriend
“maher is one of my best friend is in relationship with one of my dearest friend”

Me (3way)
“and adelina has a boyfriend”
Girlfriend
“you can ask him if you want and in arabic i like you and i love you are the same it depends on the context”

Me (3way)
“I have no problem with your comments it was just a joke.
So was mine
I have no problem with your comments”

Girlfriend
“she is your your huni and your dear i can t believe it
how many girls are your huni i m curious”

Me (3way)
“I can't believe your acting this way over a simple birthday message.”

Girlfriend
“it s not a simple fucking birthday meassage
you called her your huni
you don t respect me”

Me (3way)
“Ask the girl when the last time is that I spoke to her. I can't talk to you when your like this.”

Girlfriend
“don t ever talk to me again unless your faithful”

My considered response is,

I do respect you and I respect myself more than to cheat on any girl. I also respect you more than to talk to you the way you have just talked to me. You have also cheated on me in the past and the only reason why I did not walk away was because of the distance between us [we were long distance at the time]. I understand that your cousin and your friend's situations are difficult to deal with right now but I am not cheating on you and that does not give anyone the right to talk to me like this.

The other factor is her cousin (who is like a sister to her) caught her fiancée in bed with a guy last week and my gf's best friend's was cheated on a few weeks before. Still completely unacceptable that she talked to me this way.

Please give me the best advice on how and when to respond.

Waiting a few days may also give her the opportunity to realize she's being a dumb cunt.

I'm going to approach her with this if she doesn't reply in a few days time - by phone or in person.

I will say,

"There's no excuse for you to talk to me the way you did, especially considering that you have cheated on me."