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| Author: | dvdmatsunaga [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 3:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | What are your thoughts? |
So this question has been bugging the shit out of me. Everyone here know of the proverbial bored wife/gf that falls out of love and finds some other guy who she claims "makes her feel alive again." Now, this guy is usually someone who calls her beautiful, gorgeous, hits on her, even smothers her. Now this is the exact opposite of what creates attraction supposedly. Don't compliment too much, don't shower her with stuff blah blah. I relate this to my own relationship as I always try to change things up (one day sweet, next day chill, next day cocky, etc.). This creates a paradox in my mind. Women like the chase, challenge, someone who can walk away. Yet once in a ltr with someone like this they begin to feel unwanted or unhappy. The opposite can be said as well, she can be with someone who puts her on a pedestal then she goes and cheats due to boredom or whatever. These are generalities of course but I'm wondering what's the main cause for women becoming distant in ltr's. A feeling of being wanted and loved or boredom. Idk |
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| Author: | Mastermind9000 [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 3:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
In a LTR it is common for partners to get lazy and stop making eachother feel attractive. So when someone comes along who does that... |
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| Author: | MarkyMark? [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 5:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
My ex did the same thing. Started becoming distant with me, I broke up with her, and then rebounded with the guy that would call her 20 times at night telling her that she was beautiful, gorgeous, etc. He obviously was over her the minute he knew she had him and banged her a couple times. She told me that she thought that all those calls made her feel "wanted", and as opposed to her thinking he was crazy, she thought that he had something "important to tell her". Ridiculous, but some females think that way I guess. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 7:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
Everyone comes to these points in relationships where its time for the woman to extensively test her male counter part. She begins to be concerned; she's feeling a million different things at once. It could be hormones, poor diet but whatever the case may be you must continue being the man that you always were. Don't fucking change; because you will regret the shit out of it if you do. She needs to test your strength an this is her chance. She's beginning to break you and she feels it. So this is her opportunity to apply pressure to see if you're really strong enough to handle what she throws at you. Hold fucking strong bro. Trust me. I've been here time and time again and I am actually going through a similar situation now with this girl. I'm on the back end of it, but this is no road I haven't seen before. Hold tight. Things will return back to normal when the test is over with. |
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| Author: | dvdmatsunaga [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 10:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
Quote: Everyone comes to these points in relationships where its time for the woman to extensively test her male counter part. She begins to be concerned; she's feeling a million different things at once. It could be hormones, poor diet but whatever the case may be you must continue being the man that you always were. Don't fucking change; because you will regret the shit out of it if you do. She needs to test your strength an this is her chance. She's beginning to break you and she feels it. So this is her opportunity to apply pressure to see if you're really strong enough to handle what she throws at you.
Making a note of this. You totally took some major stress off me dude. It's hard to notice what's happening when you're in the shit, it's like having blinders on. Very much appreciated bro
Hold fucking strong bro. Trust me. I've been here time and time again and I am actually going through a similar situation now with this girl. I'm on the back end of it, but this is no road I haven't seen before. Hold tight. Things will return back to normal when the test is over with. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 10:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
Quote: Quote: Everyone comes to these points in relationships where its time for the woman to extensively test her male counter part. She begins to be concerned; she's feeling a million different things at once. It could be hormones, poor diet but whatever the case may be you must continue being the man that you always were. Don't fucking change; because you will regret the shit out of it if you do. She needs to test your strength an this is her chance. She's beginning to break you and she feels it. So this is her opportunity to apply pressure to see if you're really strong enough to handle what she throws at you.
Making a note of this. You totally took some major stress off me dude. It's hard to notice what's happening when you're in the shit, it's like having blinders on. Very much appreciated broHold fucking strong bro. Trust me. I've been here time and time again and I am actually going through a similar situation now with this girl. I'm on the back end of it, but this is no road I haven't seen before. Hold tight. Things will return back to normal when the test is over with. |
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| Author: | maria_ [ Wed Jul 16, 2014 5:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
it's simple.... human nature always want what it can't have..... If a woman is showered with compliments and calls she will want someone that makes her work for his attention.. if she is hungry for attention a guy that makes her work for his attention is hard work and unpleasant.. Moods change ... and needs change. Needs that were not fulfilled when they are fulfilled the interest shifts into something else. If you apply "one size fits all" mentality into seduction even for the same person you won't be able to keep their interest for long. If you can predict someone's behaviour you have instantly lost interest in them.. |
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| Author: | Playboi_ [ Wed Jul 16, 2014 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are your thoughts? |
Quote: Everyone comes to these points in relationships where its time for the woman to extensively test her male counter part. She begins to be concerned; she's feeling a million different things at once. It could be hormones, poor diet but whatever the case may be you must continue being the man that you always were. Don't fucking change; because you will regret the shit out of it if you do. She needs to test your strength an this is her chance. She's beginning to break you and she feels it. So this is her opportunity to apply pressure to see if you're really strong enough to handle what she throws at you.
On point 100%. She wants to feel the power. Then, she'll get it from a stage 5 clinger and want a real man back. Just kick back.
Hold fucking strong bro. Trust me. I've been here time and time again and I am actually going through a similar situation now with this girl. I'm on the back end of it, but this is no road I haven't seen before. Hold tight. Things will return back to normal when the test is over with. |
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