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Author:  highiq [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:46 am ]
Post subject:  Can I get advice on handling multiple girls?
I'm very new to gaming, but seem to be learning fast. Too fast. I'm not sure the best way to handle this situation if/when it gets deep.

I went out with 2 girls last weekend, and it's hard to tell which one I like better, but they both seem to think I'm the best guy they've met in a long time and are really into me. One is really smart and plays violin and can use Pro Tools, which I think is hot, her face and body is a like a model, but with relatively small natural tits. The other one has a slighly better body, fake tits, a hot face, but not model quality, and courtside Clippers season tickets. Both girls are looking for a relationship, and I am too. The first girl is more like who I'd want to have a kid with, and the 2nd girl is really fun and has those tickets. And having a kid with her wouldn't be the end of the world either.

But I just started doing this. I had no idea I would find 2 girls so quick. I wonder if I can handle them both without them finding out about each other, but I don't really want to play that dangerous game. I know a lot of the best PUA's can have multiple girlfriend's that know about each other and are ok with it, but I'm definitely not that advanced, and am not sure I could or should pull that off.

Any advice from people who have dealt with this kind of situation? Should I pick one, and if so, when?
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 8:14 am ]
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Girl 1, easy. She can use protools, that's fucking hot, I could totally use that.


Date both for a bit to get an idea of what kinda girl they are, and the vibe. Make a decision there it'll be obvious after some point which one to go for. One may drop out too maybe she loses interest or whatever.
Author:  maria_ [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 9:00 am ]
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You cannot have multiple girlfriends if THEY don't want that too.
Girl 1 sounds to me like the girl you should go for if you are searching for something long term.
Girl 2 the only positive thing you keep saying about her is the tickets. This is not linked to her personality and how she would make you feel as a person. If she wouldn't have anymore the tickets she won't mean much to you.
Author:  highiq [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 2:04 pm ]
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Really appreciate the advice. I'm going to date both for now to see, but there's a few more details that make it a hard choice.

The first girl is too reserved and not very spontaneous and adventurous. But she has epilepsy and I have MS, so we could take care of each other when we get old. Serious shit. And I might be able to bring that spontaneity out of her. The second girl is a lot more exciting though and is really easy to talk to, plus she's pretty smart too. Plus she is a nurse and produces movies and sets up big premieres. Pretty attractive as well.

But I'm not really needing you guys to pick. I'll have to decide that myself. I really appreciate the input though on handling multiple girls and whether it's a good idea or not. I'll just have to pick one eventually. The other idea that makes it even more confusing is, what if there's an even better girl out there? Should I keep getting girls numbers even though I have my hands full? Is there a girl out there that can run Pro Tools and has courtside Lakers tickets? That would make my decision a lot easier. Stuff gets complicated real fast. lol
Author:  Playboi_ [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 2:23 pm ]
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Sounds like you are enjoying yourself. Why pick? Enjoy your single time. You said you found them relatively quickly, what if a third girl comes along who beats them both?
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 3:03 pm ]
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Don't take this the wrong way but how old are you? You're thinking way too ahead into the future.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 3:40 pm ]
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Yes you can have two girls without let them know.

All you need to do is just go on date with them at your place or her place and don't take pic with either one of them.

These way neither one of them will know the other one exists.

But it's always better to be honest. I mean telling the girl that you love to be with them but dont want to jump into a relationship so fast yet.

By doing so, you get to keep both of them, have fun with them and see which one is the one that you really want.

Hope this help
Naughty Napoleon
Author:  highiq [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 4:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I get advice on handling multiple girls?
I'm 34. I do feel like I'm in a hurry a bit. I need to chill. The first girl is 27, the other girl is 33. I'm glad I got all your tips though. I have a better idea now of how I should handle it. Thanks again.

I know I shouldn't look too far into the future, but realistically, I know what's coming and want to be prepared. They both know I'm dating another girl, so right now it's good, like they are trying to win me. In fact, I'm thinking of finding a smooth way to tell the first girl that the other girl is more adventurous and spontaneous. Girl 2 could never get the intellect that you have, but you could become more exciting, adventurous, etc. very easily. I might be able to turn her into the best of both girls and get my own season tickets.

Or keep getting girls numbers. But these girls are so dope, and I am so busy. My best friend advised me to go with Girl 2, because a girl with money is better. Then if you lose your job for a while, it's no big deal. (tells you what he's dealt with, but he has no game).

When it comes to getting more girls numbers, I feel like I'm winning big in a casino. Should I just take my winnings and cash out? Or risk losing what I already have to go for the jackpot?
Author:  maria_ [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 5:09 pm ]
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Quote:
Yes you can have two girls without let them know. Naughty Napoleon
As far as I know this is considered an AFC attitude. Most of the articles I have read about multiple relationships from mPUAs say that the girls should be aware of the other girls.
Being honest is part of being a PUA.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 5:16 pm ]
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I'd get with Girl 2. Artistic/creative girls are stubborn and difficult. Also since I use pro tools, I don't like women who try to compete with me, musically or intellectually.

Never understood why so many guys think an artistically talented woman is so attractive. A good wife is one who submits to you. A self-opinionated moody artist type of girl is my worst nightmare, because she would be a female version of me. We'd fight constantly.
Author:  Playboi_ [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 6:34 pm ]
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Quote:
I'm 34. I do feel like I'm in a hurry a bit. I need to chill. The first girl is 27, the other girl is 33. I'm glad I got all your tips though. I have a better idea now of how I should handle it. Thanks again.

I know I shouldn't look too far into the future, but realistically, I know what's coming and want to be prepared. They both know I'm dating another girl, so right now it's good, like they are trying to win me. In fact, I'm thinking of finding a smooth way to tell the first girl that the other girl is more adventurous and spontaneous. Girl 2 could never get the intellect that you have, but you could become more exciting, adventurous, etc. very easily. I might be able to turn her into the best of both girls and get my own season tickets.

Or keep getting girls numbers. But these girls are so dope, and I am so busy. My best friend advised me to go with Girl 2, because a girl with money is better. Then if you lose your job for a while, it's no big deal. (tells you what he's dealt with, but he has no game).

When it comes to getting more girls numbers, I feel like I'm winning big in a casino. Should I just take my winnings and cash out? Or risk losing what I already have to go for the jackpot?
DO NOT play them against each other. You will lose fast. Be up front and honest that there is another and keep doing you. If they stay along for the ride, cool. Don't change them. Just drop them when they begin to not align with your plans.
Author:  highiq [ Thu Jul 10, 2014 3:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I get advice on handling multiple girls?
Great advice. I never had game until recently so I'm glad I came asking questions here before I got myself into trouble. You guys sure aren't helping on which one to choose though. Take the smart girl. Take the submissive one. lol

I'll have to decide that myself based on how things go. I wonder how long I can date both of them before they start getting demanding about not seeing the other girl. That might actually help me decide.
Author:  Playboi_ [ Thu Jul 10, 2014 4:16 am ]
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Quote:
Great advice. I never had game until recently so I'm glad I came asking questions here before I got myself into trouble. You guys sure aren't helping on which one to choose though. Take the smart girl. Take the submissive one. lol

I'll have to decide that myself based on how things go. I wonder how long I can date both of them before they start getting demanding about not seeing the other girl. That might actually help me decide.
We were helping decide. We sided with dropping none. It is a pickup forum bud. Keep them both until it runs it's course.
Author:  highiq [ Thu Jul 10, 2014 7:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I get advice on handling multiple girls?
word.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Jul 10, 2014 10:47 am ]
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Wolfwood has a fine collection of links on this subject matter. Search his posts.
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