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| Author: | BlueFret [ Sat May 31, 2014 3:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | I think GF is getting attached really fast. |
Just got into a relationship with someone. Dated for like 2 months before officially asking her to be my girlfriend. Everything is always good at the beginning. However every time we go out on a date or something, she always texts me at night saying something like Today was great, You're great. you're so thoughtful. Today she ended the text with Buenas Noches Novio *good night boyfriend* She's only had one official boyfriend. She's 20 Maybe i'm over reacting or acting stupid or both. Am I? Advice? |
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| Author: | maria_ [ Sat May 31, 2014 10:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I think GF is getting attached really fast. |
she sounds like the type of girl that will respect you, appreciate you and have feelings for you. She is the good girl type. If you want sex only then better leave her now because if you do it later you are going to hurt her feelings. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sun Jun 01, 2014 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I think GF is getting attached really fast. |
Not seeing a red flag here. She's just thanking you for a date and telling you gnite. |
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| Author: | BlueFret [ Sun Jun 01, 2014 2:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I think GF is getting attached really fast. |
Quote: she sounds like the type of girl that will respect you, appreciate you and have feelings for you. She is the good girl type.
She is the good girl type and i am sexually attracted to her. However that's not all i am looking for. I do like her.
If you want sex only then better leave her now because if you do it later you are going to hurt her feelings. |
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| Author: | lt7920 [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 8:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I think GF is getting attached really fast. |
lol. you are overacting. just chill and enjoy life man! |
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| Author: | Zirk13 [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 10:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I think GF is getting attached really fast. |
can i ask have you had girlfriends before, this is a new relationship for her as well you will find that boundaries will be checked in almost everything you do together, a overly sweet gnite text is nothing to worry about. what I think your mind is refering to it because it didn't feel like you earned anything to get that response. you may feel a little undeserving of the sweetness and find it a bit unnattractive because it feels like its not "genuine" you got the girl its earned she had a great time and wanted to talk to you right before bed so she texted you gnight. it's a normal habit of boyfriends and girlfriends in the beginning. defining the relationship sometimes feels like your meeting the person all over again and if shes the same girl you have no worries but if she seems different its just because it's a new dynamic between the two of you. imagine a newly married couple on their honeymoon can be sickning to watch but its new for them as well. chase phase, relationship phase, grow together phase, marriage phase, children phase |
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