PUA Forum :: Losing it!

Look there is too little detail in this post to give a really specific answer, but I'll tell you something REALLY important.

No human being wants to be the sole source of happiness for another. There's nothing wrong with you loving a girl, but I'm going out on a limb to say that you've stifled her. You MUST have other things in your life that you love doing, that are important to you.

In fact every man MUST have something in his life that he'd be willing to leave his partner for if the need called.

For me, it's my career. I love coaching guys with dating, and if my partner ever asked me to stop, she knows I'd leave her. I also wouldn't stop travelling for a partner. I love travelling.

If you have other things in your life that are hugely important to you and that you'd never ditch for a woman, then you are you are never in danger of losing yourself to her, and of her feeling stifled by your love. But I'm willing to guess that whatever else you had going on in your life ground to a halt for this girl?

Author:	nikzki [ Mon May 19, 2014 10:58 pm ]
Post subject:	Losing it!
Hi Fellas it's been a while. I've been going out with this girl, who I happen to like very much and lately things have change. It's all my fault, because I love her and i showed that, and she kinda got the idea that I am a in love with her and I spend all the time with her, and it's not interesting for her anymore. And we discussed it. I don't know what to do, should i keep distance do stuff and go out, and kinda of not pay attention to her that much. What is the best way to get her like me again, before we break up finally.

Author:	djdante [ Tue May 20, 2014 1:16 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Losing it!
Look there is too little detail in this post to give a really specific answer, but I'll tell you something REALLY important. No human being wants to be the sole source of happiness for another. There's nothing wrong with you loving a girl, but I'm going out on a limb to say that you've stifled her. You MUST have other things in your life that you love doing, that are important to you. In fact every man MUST have something in his life that he'd be willing to leave his partner for if the need called. For me, it's my career. I love coaching guys with dating, and if my partner ever asked me to stop, she knows I'd leave her. I also wouldn't stop travelling for a partner. I love travelling. If you have other things in your life that are hugely important to you and that you'd never ditch for a woman, then you are you are never in danger of losing yourself to her, and of her feeling stifled by your love. But I'm willing to guess that whatever else you had going on in your life ground to a halt for this girl?

Author:	alxbkr [ Tue May 20, 2014 11:47 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Losing it!
By focusing on yourself and improving yourself. Don;t dedicate your whole self to her

Author:	nikzki [ Tue May 27, 2014 11:40 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Losing it!
Quote: Look there is too little detail in this post to give a really specific answer, but I'll tell you something REALLY important. No human being wants to be the sole source of happiness for another. There's nothing wrong with you loving a girl, but I'm going out on a limb to say that you've stifled her. You MUST have other things in your life that you love doing, that are important to you. In fact every man MUST have something in his life that he'd be willing to leave his partner for if the need called. For me, it's my career. I love coaching guys with dating, and if my partner ever asked me to stop, she knows I'd leave her. I also wouldn't stop travelling for a partner. I love travelling. If you have other things in your life that are hugely important to you and that you'd never ditch for a woman, then you are you are never in danger of losing yourself to her, and of her feeling stifled by your love. But I'm willing to guess that whatever else you had going on in your life ground to a halt for this girl? Thanks for reply, I do understand my mistake, and I've been keeping a distance and indeed I have a lot of thing to do in life that are very important to me! Thanks again!

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