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Author:  MrRawb [ Sat May 10, 2014 3:28 am ]
Post subject:  How do I maintain a relationship?
I can game women.
I can get numbers without even trying.
I can make women WANT my number.

But what I've never truly been able to accomplish is dating one. I mean, fuck am I supposed to be doing? Am I supposed to keep treating her like shit for the rest of my life to keep her by my side? Whenever I open up to women and show them an ounce of kindness, they get up and walk away.

I started a relationship 2 months ago with a girl Id known for an entire year and a half almost (said she loved me at the 3 month point) just walked out on me said to my face about all my faults and compared me with a "perfect guy" she hasnt even seen in 6 years. Lets call him "Chad".

Shed always be flaky unless I literally went up to her parents and ask them to go out on a date with their daughter. Told me that if Chad came up and asked her to run away with him, she would drop her career in a second just to take care of his children.

I never gave her anything before we started dating. When we did, id treat her well, i'd take her to dinner, buy her roses, etc on and only on special occasions. Told me that I treated her like a baby.

What I really dont understand, during the breakup, she said she would marry me. But she doesnt want to be with me.

What. The. Fuck?

Tl;dr How am I supposed to be treating women when I finally decide to get into a relationship?
Author:  sangoma3 [ Tue May 13, 2014 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain a relationship?
This has been a sticking point for me as well lately. If you saw me out on a Friday you might call me an mpua, in other words I've got a knack for meeting a girl whom I feel attracted to and taking her home that night, happens regularly.

However my relationships tend to last about 2 or 3 months and then end when I begin to try andake the girl feel special or appreciated.

So I've been looking into this as well and this is what I've found and itales sense. These are some rules that I haven't necessarily followed in the past but make perfect sense.

1. Always keep your day to day life...women become attracted torn for the long term that have something going on, always and don't rearrang their life for the girl (until married or w children). This shows her that even if you end up breaking up you will end up happy anyways because your life is constantly moving forward.

2. Keep in contact w the girl Wout preluding to hanging out all the time. Send her a pic of a cool bar you're at or some cool thing you saw w out inviting her. This keeps communication ongoing w out being needy.

3. Let the girl come to you w the deep convos like where you are in the relationship or how much she missed you...then approach them maturely. Never start them yourself.

4. Keep her on her toes, don't be predictable, go to different places and have sex in different ways (this one can be hard for me as I get lazy).

5. A guy w other options, but doesn't flaunt that or threaten w it is always attractive. Communicate this in suddle or numerous ways.

6. Keep her thinking a bit in terms of when you spend time together, sometimes after a great afternoon or night it's best to focus on your own personal things and not initiate contact for four or so days.

7. If you fight approach it Maturly but convey to her that you don't need her to be happy, in other words sometimes it's best to say what you need to say and then leave to do something better.

8. Don't always be a nice guy sometimes it's better not to care, especially when you sense that she's a big enough girl to handle that particular thing on her own.

Hope this helps.

I'm experiencing w these rules myself and I foresee very good results. Currently dating 4 women and have some on the back burner So I'll keep you informed.
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