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I've been together with my gf for 6 months. We have lots of sex. But I realized, the few times she isn't in the mood, I react like a crybaby that had his lollipop taken away. This is not how I want to be. Instead of letting it pass and do something else, I fall into a vicious circle of moping and have trouble keeping my outward appearance. How do I turn this shit off?

Author:	Monophthalmos [ Wed Apr 30, 2014 10:27 am ]
Post subject:	Inner Game issue: I react pouty when she isn't in the mood
I've been together with my gf for 6 months. We have lots of sex. But I realized, the few times she isn't in the mood, I react like a crybaby that had his lollipop taken away. This is not how I want to be. Instead of letting it pass and do something else, I fall into a vicious circle of moping and have trouble keeping my outward appearance. How do I turn this shit off?

Author:	Vlads [ Wed Apr 30, 2014 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Inner Game issue: I react pouty when she isn't in the mo
Quote: I've been together with my gf for 6 months. We have lots of sex. But I realized, the few times she isn't in the mood, I react like a crybaby that had his lollipop taken away. This is not how I want to be. Instead of letting it pass and do something else, I fall into a vicious circle of moping and have trouble keeping my outward appearance. How do I turn this shit off? it's a serious questions, well you need to start to do some self controlling references, you need to start doing that takes you out of your comfort zone on daily basis.

Author:	AFCToTheMax [ Thu May 01, 2014 11:38 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Inner Game issue: I react pouty when she isn't in the mo
Quote: I've been together with my gf for 6 months. We have lots of sex. But I realized, the few times she isn't in the mood, I react like a crybaby that had his lollipop taken away. This is not how I want to be. Instead of letting it pass and do something else, I fall into a vicious circle of moping and have trouble keeping my outward appearance. How do I turn this shit off? Well first of all don't take it personal. It's hard to do but you are not the reason she isn't in the mood. You can tell her next time she is not in the mood that it sucks because you are horny but you understand because it's not reasonable to expect someone to be always up for it. Or you can just tell her that you are grumpy because you didn't get any. By doing this you have communicated how you feel which will be relieving and will make your bad mood disappear. Or you can find a few activities which can help you to take your mind off. If this happens a few times and it's not regular than there is no real issue.

Author:	Monophthalmos [ Sat May 03, 2014 1:59 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Inner Game issue: I react pouty when she isn't in the mo
Thx, to you both. I'll try to be more chill about it. I am more concerned about my inner strength than about her TBH. It annoys me to no end that I am like this as I have no problem grasping rationally that you don't want sex all the time, but it triggers the feeling of rejection in me.

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