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| Author: | RedFoxThomas [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 5:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keeping a relationship interesting |
We tend to see each other 3 or 4 days a week.. However, we are thinking about getting an apartment in the next 2 months. When we are in person, I am at the top of my game. Not a bestie, not beta. I go for sex, it's good. Or we do other sexual things. Then cuddle and all that good stuff. However, what worries me is the texting for days when we aren't together. We have built a rapport of texting throughout the day. It's been this way since the beginning. If I were to pull back, it would be obvious, and definitely interpreted as something was very wrong. So the question is, how do I keep things interesting in texts when we aren't together? Once we move in I feel like everything will be no problem. In the meantime, though, frankly, I'm running out of things to text about! Aside from the obvious flirting/how is your day type stuff. |
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| Author: | Vlads [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 6:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
you afraid to lose her aren't you? you got life besides her, live them, even whats up once a day + what you are doing or planning, you can ask her questions, advices (she also want to know she is useful not only as a sex toy), like normal friends do. and don't forget to make her miss you. |
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| Author: | js90si [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
Quote: you afraid to lose her aren't you?
you got life besides her, live them, even whats up once a day + what you are doing or planning, you can ask her questions, advices (she also want to know she is useful not only as a sex toy), like normal friends do. and don't forget to make her miss you. This is true, but be careful moveing in with her... by spending everyday with she will naturually loose attraction. I would suggest you to read relationship rewind and suggest you understand the diffrent stages or a relationship. Its a great book that helps explain how to approach each and keep the fire going. If you have any questions feel free to pm me im very familiar with the techniques. |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 12:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
Quote: We tend to see each other 3 or 4 days a week..
If you worry about texting, don't text.
However, we are thinking about getting an apartment in the next 2 months. When we are in person, I am at the top of my game. Not a bestie, not beta. I go for sex, it's good. Or we do other sexual things. Then cuddle and all that good stuff. However, what worries me is the texting for days when we aren't together. We have built a rapport of texting throughout the day. It's been this way since the beginning. If I were to pull back, it would be obvious, and definitely interpreted as something was very wrong. So the question is, how do I keep things interesting in texts when we aren't together? Once we move in I feel like everything will be no problem. In the meantime, though, frankly, I'm running out of things to text about! Aside from the obvious flirting/how is your day type stuff. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 12:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
How long have you been together that you're already moving in together? That's currently a lot more important than this stupid texting shit. Girls don't mind this kind of stuff so much, as long as you're interesting in person. |
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| Author: | RedFoxThomas [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 2:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
Quote: How long have you been together that you're already moving in together? That's currently a lot more important than this stupid texting shit. Girls don't mind this kind of stuff so much, as long as you're interesting in person.
That's good to know. Well, we've been together almost 3 months. Can't say I've ever clicked with someone like I do her. Just seemed like a simple choice. Plus we are both about to be going to college near the apartment, so it made sense. Neither of us like being away from each other as well.. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
Good Luck on that one mate. With my ex we moved in together after 2 months out of the same reasons you guys. It lasted for another 8 months, and the last one and a half month was pure torture for both of us. So I hope yours will turn out to be better. It's very hard if it's been going on only for so little time. Do not take her for granted just because you live in the same place. Keep variety up. This is my advice to you. Two mistakes that ruined it for us. That and her illness, but it's a long story anyway. Good luck bro, Peace, In$tinct |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Apr 19, 2014 6:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
Think up of short term projects that you two can do together. Examples: 1. Cooking a gourmet meal; something like Spanish seafood paella. You two can shop for ingredients. You both work on chopping the onions, garlic, tomatoes and so on.  2. Painting the apartment and you use the money you've saved to celebrate. 3. Save up for a bungee jumping adventure. Find ways to save towards that vacation like cutting a few Starbucks coffee here and there. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sun Apr 20, 2014 12:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a relationship interesting |
Jesus....what's with people moving in together 3 months in? Don't. You're in the honeymoon phase. |
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