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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 5:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Rules apparently don't apply to her? (Womendon't make sense) |
It's been awhile since I have posted on here but I think the past two weeks due to the stress coming from two of my jobs I have been off my game. The girl has been complaining about how many "nice" things she does for me and how I don't do nice things for her. Okay. So I started being a little bit nicer, even brought her food on a day she was supposed to work for the whole day. They wouldn't let her leave to get food so I decided to do something for her. Okay. Next day comes, I wake up and ask her to make me some breakfast...I didn't have a problem with her not making breakfast but the way she answered me: Basically, she said she ain't making me shit... She was trying to wake me up to clean in the morning so I guess (now that it has been a few hours) I can understand she was irritated but still, anyway I seen a Facebook post of her complaining how people can't do nice things for other people without the other person holding it over their heads... I may have mentioned that I wouldn't bring her shit next time because she denied my request for breakfast. Still pretty funny when she holds it over my head when she does nice things but lord knows it is wrong when I do it. But I remembered David Deangelo's whole first chapter about don't try to make sense of women's logic because you will be wasting your time. What are your thoughts PUA members? ~Assertive |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rules apparently don't apply to her? (Womendon't make se |
I had this problem before and here is my advice. If you do something for someone with the expectation of getting something in return you will get frustrated somewhere down the line. And holding it over ones head is not cool. It is a controlling behaviour so stop doing it. Be a bit more selfless |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 9:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rules apparently don't apply to her? (Womendon't make se |
Quote: I had this problem before and here is my advice.
If you do something for someone with the expectation of getting something in return you will get frustrated somewhere down the line. And holding it over ones head is not cool. It is a controlling behaviour so stop doing it. Be a bit more selfless It was a heat of the moment kind of thing. I am aware of how it sounds. |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Mon Apr 28, 2014 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rules apparently don't apply to her? (Womendon't make se |
Did you apologize for doing it? I would recommend it. Regardless of your relationship, when you wrong someone an sincere apology is in order. |
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