Hey guys,
I need your help with a girl I am currently dating. We met some time ago and I cold approached her in a club. We don’t have a common friend circle or other communalities before. Just a complete natural approach from my side. I dated her and we had a nice time in bed and out of bed like spending the day hiking and such. She tells me how much she likes me and how lucky she is that she found me … Shes also afraid that I would leave her. Her last words when we left were: promise me you wont leave me ... However now I am receiving some signs form her and I need your opinion about it.
Now shes on a trip around Europe and shes coming back on Sunday evening. So we haven’t seen each other for about two weeks. We have been typing via SPAM ever since and the contact isn’t like if she would be around …
So via SPAM I get some messages like:
HB: Will you still be my friend if we weren't anything else?
Hejsan: Bla Bla I like to keep good souls close to me.
And …
HB: No I'm more worried because I wish I felt closer to you (emotionaly I guess)
So she keeps telling me that I behave somewhat distant and that I seem like closed up. That’s still some sticky point of mine. Also she tells me its nice to have someone around who pretends to listen to her. I don’t like to pretend oO? What would your reaction to this be and how should I counter those signs? I want to fuck her brains out anyway
but I guess that won’t solve the original reason.Thanks for your opinion,
Hejsan