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| Author: | Potency2000 [ Sun Mar 16, 2014 5:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Feelings I Should Feel |
Sup, So I have been in a great relationship for almost a year now. I want to continue this relationship. The problem is during different parts of our first year I feel myself "not caring is she leaves." The reason I feel this way is because I think relationships are best when each members "life is not destroyed" if the other leaves. I always gone about feeling that I care about my woman very very much however that I have a great individual life and that I can always start more great relationships. I want to emphasize again that I do care about this woman a lot. So the question is, 1.)what do you all think about how the man in a relationship should feel about break up? Should he feel he is an alpha and that he can start more great relationships? As I said if I were to break up I would feel some sadness, but I am always dominant enough that I know I will find other great relationships. My second quick question is, 2.)how should a man feel about "emotional" situations in a relationship? Me personally, I see the big picture of my individual life and the relationship I am in. So when possible "emotional" situations occur. I am simply unmoved, mostly not mad because I have my eye on the prize. Thanks for all your feedback |
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| Author: | johngoldman [ Sun Mar 16, 2014 5:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Feelings I Should Feel |
Feelings are places where "should" does not apply. There is no right way to feel, only the actual way you feel. I wouldn't try to manufacture a feeling or focus on it. The best thing to do is be aware of how you currently feel, accept it and proceed accordingly. |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 6:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Feelings I Should Feel |
Agreed. You can't control how you feel, but you can acknowledge how you feel and control how you react to your feelings. As men, this is a harder lesson for us to learn, because social conditioning teaches us to ignore feelings. |
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| Author: | bootydaddy [ Sun Mar 23, 2014 4:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Feelings I Should Feel |
yeah theres no should or should not in this situation. Just dont get stepped on and keep your dignity. It'll all work out. |
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| Author: | Potency2000 [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 8:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Feelings I Should Feel |
thanks for all your feed back |
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