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| Author: | sangoma3 [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 4:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Catch 22, Need Some Solution Help |
Hey Guys, I'm in a bit of a tough situation here, so any help is much appreciated. I met this girl maybe a few weeks ago, hung out with her once and probably had the best date I've had with anyone in maybe a year, incredible person. We didn't even get the chance to kiss though as I had to head home early. I can tell you though she kind of inspired me. She texted me the other night but I didn't respond because I was with another girl at the time. We also exchanged many texts a while back to hang but that fell through for logistical reasons as well. It seems as giving up time is near as I've put her down a couple times now for logistical reasons. We're supposed to hang out tomorrow, however, a girl I've been dating heavily for a couple months now (had sex with numerous times) is leaving for Dallas for a couple weeks and says that tomorrow is the only time to hang before she leaves and she would really like to see me. Both these women are special and I want to continue getting to know them. One because she's beautiful and takes care of me and our relationship is very deep for a couple months. And the other because, although I don't know her well yet, she seems like she can potentially be the "perfect" girl for me, I mean she fucking inspired me for the first time in years. By the way I'm very fortunate when it comes to women and these girls are two of MANY and yes they're both actually something else in my world I'm not just a hopeless romantic. So I need to figure out what to do in this situation. I feel that whoever I cancel with I'm burning a bridge and really don't want to do that. Maybe there's a simple solution? Not sure. Anyone experienced enough to help me with this dilemma? |
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| Author: | do8 [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 8:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Catch 22, Need Some Solution Help |
Well do what you have to do. Cancel your 'hangout' tomorrow with her (the one who is not leaving) and instantly propose anther date/time. I mean instantly |
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| Author: | Tinfoil [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Catch 22, Need Some Solution Help |
Continuously cancelling on her cannot be a good thing! Either stick with it, or rearrange within the same day, if you said "lets hangout wednesday" Say something about going for coffee during the day, and see the other in the evening, but if your doing a day date, i would look to setup a second date, let her down too many times and you'll blow it. One cancelation can be a good thing, makes you look important and busy, often I do this for no reason other than to build value. But I will at the same time rearrange! |
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| Author: | JimmyG_123 [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 8:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Catch 22, Need Some Solution Help |
Quit being so thirsty and choose one or the other. In my years I always seem to fuck up something with one girl or both when I'm dating two at a time, so I try not to do it anymore, just keep um on the back burner. |
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| Author: | sangoma3 [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Catch 22, Need Some Solution Help |
Haha, you guys were right about the instant rescheduling. I'm often dating several women at a time but it seems that the two best ones in at least several months came at the same time, and both reached a pivotal moment at the same time, and so I panicked a little and asked for advice. You guys were right, the best thing to do was the simple and mature one and just reschedule as opposed to anything else. So simple haha, thanks again. |
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| Author: | sangoma3 [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 11:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Catch 22, Need Some Solution Help |
By the way I rescheduled with the girl that's staying. I texted her and told her that a good friend of mine was leaving for Dallas for a while and I had to say goodbye today, however that I'm still looking forward to our date and asked her if wednes or thurs would work for her, she said Thursday. Now I'm about to see the Jazz great Dave Leibman with the girl thats leaving tomorrow in about 45 minutes. Win Win. More often than not the best solution in just the most mature thing you can do as maturity is value in itself. |
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