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Author:  Crustav [ Wed Feb 26, 2014 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  First girlfriend losing interest, i'm too inexperienced
I have quickly become too accommodating and had one too many honest discussions with her, talked about feelings, not what i seemed to be.

I went from being aloof and high value to "I'm free whenever", she knows i'll go to any length. She has been texting and talking less and I've noticed a significant decrease in her interest level.

I really put my foot in it last night too,i feel my emotions are getting the best of me, making things worse

We had planned to meetup today and hangout since it's been over a week which is longer than our usual 2-3 times a week. Anyway, she texts me the night before and says "I'm going to college tomorrow so i wont be home anymore" (She just started college too, she is a freshman).

I say "no worries, let me know when you wanna hang"

She apologises and blames me for not confirming it with her but offers no reschedule, which is a first for her and a red flag in my mind.

I say "thought it was pretty clear but no hard feelings, i'm free this weekend"

So far no response, now if the entire weekend passes without a word i figure this is as i feared. My gut tells me a couple things,

1.At some point she lost respect for me or is growing tired of me, probably a combination

2.She will definitely string me along until she can monkey branch
Author:  RiRi [ Thu Feb 27, 2014 4:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First girlfriend losing interest, i'm too inexperienced
Correct on all accounts.

Get out of there with the sliver of dignity you still might have. The best thing you can do is to cease all contact. If anything, she'll badger you because she's not getting the attention she wants. This is when you continue to grow as a PUA and as a person and lightly let her down. This will make you look masculine and strong...don't shit it away by going back to your AFC ways for this girl.

Good luck man, life is so much easier when you don't have to deal with this BS.
Author:  Crustav [ Thu Feb 27, 2014 5:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First girlfriend losing interest, i'm too inexperienced
Quote:
Correct on all accounts.

Get out of there with the sliver of dignity you still might have. The best thing you can do is to cease all contact. If anything, she'll badger you because she's not getting the attention she wants. This is when you continue to grow as a PUA and as a person and lightly let her down. This will make you look masculine and strong...don't shit it away by going back to your AFC ways for this girl.

Good luck man, life is so much easier when you don't have to deal with this BS.
Much appreciated my friend, it shall be done!!
Author:  Philosophicus [ Thu Feb 27, 2014 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First girlfriend losing interest, i'm too inexperienced
I'm not here to market anyone's product, but if you want to salvage the relationship, I highly encourage you to get Matt Huston's ex2 system. Your situation has his audiobook written all over it. The good news is she hasn't actually broken up with you yet... But you need to realize that she IS losing attraction for you based on your gradual wussi-fication. You need to return to being the man she originally fell for, and not the push-over she's turning you into. And you're absolutely right—the moment she loses respect for you is the moment she will cheat on you or leave you outright. I went through a similar situation once upon a time. That's pretty much what led me to the world of pickup. Better to be proactive.
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