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Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 3:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Girlfriend oggling over celebrity
My girlfriend was having chit chat with her girlfriend and a song came up on the radio that was about sex. She started talking about how this song was meant for her, how she wants to meet the singer and even looked up information on how to meet the guy (she even looked up personal information on the guys) . I was in the next room, but I didn't really feel comfortable with the way she was talking. She even said at one point "check if he's single!".


Now, it's my insecurity...i know. I just want to know how to handle the situation the next time. I rationalized that it was girl talk so it was better than her talking about a celeb rather than a guy at work or school, etc.

Any tips
Author:  n2thevoid [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 3:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend oggling over celebrity
stalker much
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 4:09 pm ]
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Seriously?
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Now, it's my insecurity...i know.
Well if you know that it's your own insecurity (and it is!) You need to work on your own self-esteem.

If you continue on this path, your hot and sexy vibe is going to get its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions.

Every day, good men over their balls to their women. They are never taken away– this actually cannot happen. Instead, they are willingly removed and handed over, and this is where it starts.

Unless she is truly a nut job, she's not actually going to pursue him, anymore than your going have any hope of banging Megan Fox!

If it makes you feel better, tease her a little with it. "I always thought you had a stalker vibe!"
Author:  MadeTrue11 [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 4:15 pm ]
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It's a girl just doing wishful thinking like every person does. She is just open mouthed about it. Not like it could really ever happen her being with that celeb.

if you wanna say something next time she does that jokingly say "naaahh jennifer lopez is waay sexier"
like if it doesn't bother you
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend oggling over celebrity
Quote:
Seriously?
Quote:
Now, it's my insecurity...i know.
Well if you know that it's your own insecurity (and it is!) You need to work on your own self-esteem.

If you continue on this path, your hot and sexy vibe is going to get its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions.

Every day, good men over their balls to their women. They are never taken away– this actually cannot happen. Instead, they are willingly removed and handed over, and this is where it starts.

Unless she is truly a nut job, she's not actually going to pursue him, anymore than your going have any hope of banging Megan Fox!

If it makes you feel better, tease her a little with it. "I always thought you had a stalker vibe!"

It might not be my insecurity...it might be just a cultural thing. My family is of Mexican descent and the men are seen as the breadwinners and the macho men that they are. When she said that, I just felt disrespected is all, especially since there was another person there. I'll work on it. I haven't really shown that it bothered me by outward actions, just kinda thought about it for awhile.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 5:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend oggling over celebrity
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It might not be my insecurity...it might be just a cultural thing. My family is of Mexican descent and the men are seen as the breadwinners and the macho men that they are. When she said that, I just felt disrespected is all, especially since there was another person there. I'll work on it. I haven't really shown that it bothered me by outward actions, just kinda thought about it for awhile.
Nope. It was your own insecurity, NOT a 'cultural thing'. Men are seen in ALL cultures, in every corner of the planet, and every carnivorous species as the 'breadwinner' provider.

I know you 'felt' disrespected, but even un-intended, this is a testing system girls develop at a very young age, these tests show her what kind of mating material you are made of.

It is trivial, and should be treated as such, looks like you figured that out on your own, and passed! GOOD JOB!

There will be more.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Feb 14, 2014 3:43 pm ]
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It sounds kinda childish on her part... How old?
Author:  Zelda [ Fri Feb 14, 2014 11:42 pm ]
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Firstly know that it is completely normal to feel this. One thing you can do is make stories of how you met a celebrity yourself. Don't lower yourself by saying, "oh i love this actress" and doing what your girl does, but just say something like, "oh you'd never guess what, i met X" (celebrity name - can be male or female), say how you two got along really well. Say how that person said to you that you were the first person to talk to him/her and not ask for an autograph. It shows that you are kinda on their level slightly! I believe there is always something you can do (if you lie lol).

The reason i say this, is coz I work in a 5 star hotel and i do meet celebrities. telling this to women is an instant dhv i've realised. it makes me look so important, when in truth it's not that amazing. They are normal humans like the rest of us...

I mean why not make yourself a celebrity? You may not BE one but just the way I do it by talking about my work, i can come across as at least being in a celebrity social group, even though i just work there...

remember... perception is everything!
Author:  maxwell_28 [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 2:12 am ]
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I think one of the best way to deal with "suddenly running out of conversation" is to leave on a high note (at least temporally). Excuse yourself to the bathroom or to a phone call. Stay away for 10- 20 minutes then come back... that action alone will leave her wanting more. However, DO NOT wait until the conversation is dead to leave. Do it at a 'high point" of the conversation... so basically, you have to anticipate the that the conversation is running dry.

good luck!
Author:  prince_prince [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 1:38 pm ]
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I honestly wouldnt take it too serious man. Girls do that BS all the time...

but at the same time...maybe its because I am super duper confident in myself

and just dont care...simply because I know I have the power to get girls.




I am saying that...because when you have the feeling of the KNOWING...you

just don't really care anymore tbh man.
Author:  bustinuts [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 5:16 pm ]
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just tease her a little bit either with body language (by teasing her when you kiss next time etc be creative)
or work up some funny line to say (i wouldn't do this)
or just completely ignore it (my favorite way. it charges up and you can turn that charge into anything, including sexual)

now be realistic man chances of your girl getting fucked by that guy are non existent. chicks do this all the time and sometimes do it in front of their boyfriends to tease them so don't feed this to her.
and don't try to give her a taste of her own medicine

it's a little bit childish on her part. last time some girl did that to me was when i was 16 and so was her :)
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:44 pm ]
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Aww. Poor macho man was disrespected and poor, lickle macho man stamps his lil foot and goes into insecure, huffy mode. You watch porn don't you? If that's not being disrespectful to your girlfriend then I don't know what the fuck is. If i were you I'd shut your big fucking mouth and get over yourself. If you wank off to other women then she can fancy other men. I'd love to see your face if you caught her masturbating all over the celeb dude's pic. You'd die a million fucking deaths. And it'd serve you right, fucking idiot. You guys need to stop thinking you are better than women and you may enjoy your relationships more. Fucking morons. You are nothing without them.
Author:  bustinuts [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 5:55 pm ]
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if this ^ is not tough love then i don't know what the fuck else lol

yeah well bottom line is don't get all emo when she fancies some celeb BUT that's not the case anymore if you see some other guy trying to take your girl. don't go to the extremes. that actually is when you step in (and when she flirts with some other guy in front of you)
other than that there's really no need for you to get pissed off unless you're some clingy fuck like we all probably did at some point
Author:  DigitalSpy_spy [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend oggling over celebrity
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Aww. Poor macho man was disrespected and poor, lickle macho man stamps his lil foot and goes into insecure, huffy mode. You watch porn don't you? If that's not being disrespectful to your girlfriend then I don't know what the fuck is. If i were you I'd shut your big fucking mouth and get over yourself. If you wank off to other women then she can fancy other men. I'd love to see your face if you caught her masturbating all over the celeb dude's pic. You'd die a million fucking deaths. And it'd serve you right, fucking idiot. You guys need to stop thinking you are better than women and you may enjoy your relationships more. Fucking morons. You are nothing without them.

Guys are much better than women
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