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| Author: | Philosophicus [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 6:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Gifts that Nice Guys don't Provide that You Should |
So I was revisiting Dale Carnegie's classic, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Quote: Personally I am very fond of strawberries and cream, but I have found that for some strange reason, fish prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn’t think about what I wanted. I thought about what they wanted. I didn't bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm or grasshopper in front of the fish and said: "Wouldn't you like to have that?"
This got me to thinking, what sort of thing would it take to hook a woman. I don't mean for simply attracting her, but to REALLY hook her. I'm talking about the kinds of things that make her feel as though she can't live without you.Why not use the same common sense when fishing for people? Now most guys go out with their "strawberries and cream." They put the woman on a pedestal, buy her things, take her to fancy restaurants, you know... the usual nice-guy's playbook. So I decided to start this thread for all to contribute. What are the things that women crave deep down in their souls. I'm looking for something more... elemental. Women will throw themselves at you if you demonstrate the ability to fill some void in their lives. I'll get us started. Please add to my list: Praise/Approval Sense of protection/security Love Good sex Sense of importance/that she is special (Accomplishing this is a bit tricky without SPAM your power.) Fun Excitement/Adventure Comfort Connection Trust Sexual Tension Attraction Spontaneity Check and balance (Basically a man who knows how to say "no.") Chemistry Relief of pressure/ Freedom from responsibility concerning matters of leadership/decision. Poise and Presence Reassurance If a woman FEELS these things in her life and associates their source as you, she will be undoubtedly head over heels devoted to you. Please help expand this list. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Feb 09, 2014 1:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gifts that Nice Guys don't Provide that You Should |
1. The gift of missing you. Why hasn't he called? What's he doing right now? 2. Unpredictability. He loves me, he loves me not. 3. Sexual attraction. Damn, he's hot. I wonder how his love warrior feels inside my treasured flower. 4. Hatred. Fuck that asshole. I can't sleep thinking about what he did. He's such a jerk! 5. Skillful banging. I called to tell you that I'm still thinking about what we did last Sunday... How you pounded my cervix so fast and hard... How you played with my clit while stimulating my g-spot... How you ate my pussy for hours... |
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| Author: | Philosophicus [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 10:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gifts that Nice Guys don't Provide that You Should |
Quote: 1. The gift of missing you. Why hasn't he called? What's he doing right now?
Oh yes. The gift of missing you. I cant believe I forgot it, it's one of my favorites. Good job.
2. Unpredictability. He loves me, he loves me not. 3. Sexual attraction. Damn, he's hot. I wonder how his love warrior feels inside my treasured flower. 4. Hatred. Fuck that asshole. I can't sleep thinking about what he did. He's such a jerk! 5. Skillful banging. I called to tell you that I'm still thinking about what we did last Sunday... How you pounded my cervix so fast and hard... How you played with my clit while stimulating my g-spot... How you ate my pussy for hours... |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gifts that Nice Guys don't Provide that You Should |
Not really sure what the point of this post is. "Praise/Approval Sense of protection/security Love Good sex Sense of importance/that she is special (Accomplishing this is a bit tricky without SPAM your power.) Fun Excitement/Adventure Comfort Connection Trust Sexual Tension Attraction Spontaneity Check and balance (Basically a man who knows how to say "no.") Chemistry Relief of pressure/ Freedom from responsibility concerning matters of leadership/decision. Poise and Presence Reassurance" Are all universal basic needs everybody strives to have met. Meeting any one, or a variety of them won't ensure somebody 'throws themselves at you', as for example meeting one's need for trust can often be done through friendship. TO expand on 'gift giving'. Hearing unmet needs in others and giving them the gift of meeting those needs will definitely demonstrate value, this is the premise behind Marshall Rosenberg's Non-Violent Communication. In short, rather than hearing criticisms, judgments, or evaluations, you instead listen for unmet needs (what he calls "tragic expressions of unmet needs). Once you're able to do this you become responsive to people rather than reactive, should be part of EVERY PUA's learnings. |
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