Got this text;
baby i love you i felt so terrible like i was a prostitute or sth i ve never done this sending pics of me naked it s juste i wanted to please you nothing else and now after what you have said i m really ashamed that s all
She has done this before, i know because she told me. Obviously it turned her on. I have no problem with this.
What I said was I wanted it to be classy and what we have to be unsupperficial, but I did say how much the pics turned me on, how intimate they are etc.
Is it good that she feels this way or am I showing her she can't share her sexuality with me?
I know that women have to work to maintain the relationship, this is what she did, so that's a positive. Did doing this for me make her uncomfortable? Is that a problem? Should I have appreciated her efforts more? I also made several jokes about photoshop...
Here's a response I am considering;
"Three things;
1. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality. You don't have to say you haven't taken photos before, I remember what you talked about in Turkey.
2. Look good, feel good. That made you feel good about yourself and your body so embrace it and embrace your sexuality.
3. I shot myself in the foot.
Those pics made me really want you. We are far apart and I really enjoyed getting those photos from you. I came really hard..."Then I'm going to leave it there. What do you guys think?
I don't want to send her that if she is feeling an undercurrent of guilt from sending the photos, that was already present, then I am just exasperating it.
