I dated this girl a few months ago, very short term... It ended really poorly and during the relationship, we always got in fights. I ended up losing a few belongings to it but nothing that wasn't replaceable. (However, I DID make a big deal about it just so my friends I wasn't in the wrong). I got a text message from her the other day, we haven't spoken in months.
It stated, in brief:
"Hey, I'm giving all your stuff to such-a-such person I'm sorry it took so long for me to get this to you. Also I heard you want to date (friend's name) and I want you to know that I'm okay with this as long as it makes you happy
. You don't have to reply this if you don't want."Is this a trap? Like any normal person, I know (including myself) would have tossed that shit out a month after the relationship ended... I even said "toss it out if it is easier for you" She, previously, tried to return my things but made it difficult.
Why the hell would she send me a text message and not just give my shit to our mutual friend? She was even aware that I probably deleted her number as she said "hey it's (blah)."
Also, I'm worried she's just going to go around and sleep with all my friends now. Because I know, I would lose my shit if my ex wanted to sleep with one my friends.
So how to I make the above not happen? I don't think I have any chance with her friend btw. What do you guys make of all this?