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Author:  nokins [ Fri Jan 10, 2014 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Feb with girl who has boyfriend

Whatsup forum I need some assistance. I have a cool friend who has a boyfriend and I have told her I was into her about 2 years ago. We are now pretty cool friends. And I wanna turn our relationship into a fwb relationship. She mostly contacts me alot and there were signs that she wants this too but I wanna be certain because I think this may ruin our friendship if I'm wrong. She has mentioned drinking alot around me for no apparent reason. How would I go about doing this though? Should I be sure before using my pua tactics or are there ways of doing this subtly without knowing if this is ok with her?

Author:  Fayerweather [ Fri Jan 10, 2014 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Feb with girl who has boyfriend

Questions for you. Is she monogamous with this boyfriend? Are you introducing the option of cheating on her bf to her? How do you think she'd take that in the context of her existing relationship? Her boyfriend, and how she feels about him, is an x-factor the forum doesn't know anything about. More info?

Author:  Rough Operator [ Fri Jan 10, 2014 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Feb with girl who has boyfriend

This isn't a good idea.

But you're going to do it, and generally in this situation the advice is usually just game her as normal but be prepared to be shot down. If that happens, be cool, just say you find her too irresistibly hot to just be friends as you will always wanna try and fuck her and then distance yourself.

If you do fuck her, she will probably feel guilty and confused after the event and it will ruin your friendship, I fucked a girl who had a bf (I thought she had left him, he was just in hospital) and she ended up telling her bf I raped her because of guilt, though she was insane and evil, it is something to bare in mind.

Or you will end up sleeping with her regularly and develop feelings for her and you'll feel like absolute shit because she is using you as a dildo whilst getting the emotional stuff from her bf.

That's just my "two cents" as you Americans would say. Worth getting the opinion of more experienced forum users than I.

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