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| Author: | Valdemar1 [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 6:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When to break-up and when not to |
HI, I am not sure what the right thing to do here is... Me and my girlfriend broke up, i didn't feel like she was doing enough for our relationship, and we agreed that if we broke up and would get back together after 2 years or so, at this point we had been together for a year, and was totally in love. So it was a mutual decision.. Three days later, i wanted her back, and she told me it was too soon, i asked if i should move on and she told me to try and forget her.. 2-3 weeks later she writes me, she misses me and so on.. I gave up after a week of constant spamming from her side, and started to meet with her. We more or less started to see each other, and she really wanted to get back together, but i told her i needed to think about, and we didn't take a decision, but kept seeing each other as if we were still dating (only thing missing was to make it official). But i was in doubt, i didn't know if i wanted to remain single or start dating again... After all i had missed being single, but i kinda know that if i remains single i will miss her after 3 months.. Last night i really didn't want to get to close to her, and she could feel something was wrong, so i told things wasn't working out, and we should stop and see each other again in the future a couple of years from now.. We both got really sad, but i had a feeling it was the right thing, we cried a lot really, and i felt so bad for hurting her, i felt like i was a big asshole, and hurting the one i love feels so bad... Anyway, today i feel like it was the wrong decision, and i can't stop thinking that the single life will stop making sense in a couple of month... any advice? |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to break-up and when not to |
How old are you? This get back together in 2years thing is unrealistic. And what was this "doing enough in the rs" about? |
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| Author: | Ashx88 [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 8:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to break-up and when not to |
just do not give up.. keep trying . 1st love is the best love. she really deserve you since you could not able to forget her |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 12:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to break-up and when not to |
Quote: just do not give up.. keep trying .
Lol
1st love is the best love. she really deserve you since you could not able to forget her |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to break-up and when not to |
I seriously don't get where you're going. If you REALLY want the girl and want to be with her, then let it be with no regrets. If you still need to discover other options and still got doubts about the relationship, then move on and forget her. It's a simple decision, just listen to what you truly NEED more and go for it. |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 2:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to break-up and when not to |
Quote: just do not give up.. keep trying .
1st love is the best love. she really deserve you since you could not able to forget her |
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