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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Movie date (yeah I know...) |
Never sure what category to put these in, but I feel like it's definitely more relationshipy than Day 2, etc. Been seeing this girl 2-3x a week for a little over a month now and so far things are definitely at least heading towards a LTR. This is where I usually screw up and become too available, stop leading, and get too comfortable...so I have a nasty habit of over-thinking spots like this. All of our dates have been fun/interesting/new up until now. Is this a point where doing the dreaded movie date isn't really all that terrible? (she asked me FWIW). If we do a movie, should I maintain the lead and pick it for us or does she likely have something in mind? I was also thinking about tacking something else fun on just to keep things less boring/ordinary. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 4:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie date (yeah I know...) |
Doesn't matter much at this point assuming you're sexing her. Just enjoy yourself. As best as possible try to avoid the rut of a routine with her (i.e. movies every Friday night or whatevs). |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 11:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie date (yeah I know...) |
Pick a movie you can both enjoy. Comedies are the best in that regard. Girls tend to enjoy that disgusting romantic genre , while guys tend to be more for the action oriented. Comedies work for both. Or you can pick it together. |
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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 2:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie date (yeah I know...) |
Good ideas, thanks guys. Main reason I had to ask is I think I made my first major "blunder" this weekend around her, and the worst part is I was so drunk I can barely remember. She told me I was just really aggressive trying to grab her, kiss her, etc but overall I was a happy drunk...so I suppose it could be worse. I had to respond before getting feedback and just suggested a movie I've been wanting to see unless she had something in mind. Of course, just to mess w/ me, when she texted back my phone must have fucked up because the message was blank. I ended up falling asleep so still don't know what her response was! I feel like I've made large strides w/ my inner game, but times like these go to show I can't ever stop trying to improve if something this trivial can throw off my confidence. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 4:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie date (yeah I know...) |
believe in yourself... let go of the worry. and don't agree to see a fucking chick flick... for the love of god!!! |
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| Author: | CharlosCarlies [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Movie date (yeah I know...) |
It's all good she picked an action movie so definite points for her. Appreciate the positive support! I need to stop worrying so much and just have some fucking fun. |
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