Hello.
All advices about relationships, emphasize importance of mutual respect in relationship and how important it is to punish disrespect.
Whenever I think my GF is acting disrespectfully I usually ignore it or freeze out a bit, however I have problems recognizing it / being too sensitive.
I have problems recognizing difference between teasing/disrespect. Two text examples from her:
1)
Me: "If I had one wish.."
Her: ".. that would be?
"Me: "Well, there are two, first one is long massage .. not sure if I'll tell you about second one
"Her: "I wish massage too
and jacuzzi mm.. Haha, if you don't tell, it can't come true.."Me: "I have feeling both those wishes will come true shortly." (we are going on holidays shortly)
Her: "The best. I can't wait for the weekend! Your hidden wish to spoon me and make pancakes will also come true
"...
2)
...
Me: "We can pick coctails for each other"
Her: "I'll pick Cosmo for you, and I'll bring you the magazine too
"...
Also, if I come over to her house and she isn't completly shaven for example, is that disrespectful?
I would be very glad if somebody wrote in detail what to consider disrespectful in relationship and how you react to it.
Thank you very much for your help
