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Author:  MagicCaveman [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 6:17 pm ]
Post subject:  The best way to ask her out?
Referring back to my previous story. Met a girl a few weeks ago who i got on with well, she was seeing a guy, so i stopped texting her. Text her last week and she came out with shes not seeing him any more.

Went out friday and made out with her all night, I was pretty drunk.

Since then, I asked her if she fancied doing something and asked her when she was free which she said she would get back to me (and hasnt yet). She started texting me long messages, and texts back instantly. She wants me to meet her and her friends when she goes out all the time. I havn't got time to.

Anyway, i decided to freeze her out for a few days, in that time she posted a photo of us on facebook and commented a few times, i ignored it. Today I gave her a message teasing her etc.. she put more kisses on the end of messages etc...

Yes I need to bang her soon, but i don't want to look like a bitch. My mate said text her saying:
"Fancy entertaining me tomorrow night?" Thing is, it looks as though i got nothing better to do, however its sharp and gets to the point.

Any ideas would be appreciated as this part of my game I seriously lack in.

Thankyou
Author:  R.C [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The best way to ask her out?
You have plenty of time to go out with her and her friends , you're just intimidated by it.

Stop trying to look like you have a busy / interesting life if you don't. I say that because no one who knows the value of their own time ever thinks "Oh if I ask her to hang out she'll think I have nothing better to do".


Your mate has the right idea. Go for it.
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Wed Nov 20, 2013 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The best way to ask her out?
I wouldn't say it is a case of me trying to look busy, I am that busy. But I was going to make some time for her.

And with regards to meeting her out with her friends, I just dont want to at the moment as I have a large job on and would rather be working on that than partying too often. She says she wants to go out less and wants a bf, but her friends always drag her out, and thats not the place where i want to see her.
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The best way to ask her out?
any other ideas guys?

Thanks
Author:  Rough Operator [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 1:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The best way to ask her out?
Think of something fun you would like to do with her, and then ask her to do it?

Not that hard.
Author:  General Lamb [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 12:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The best way to ask her out?
Hello there.

I'll share my own approach with you, do with it as you wish.

I like to set things up a bit first. A simple conversation where I enthusiastically talk about one of my favourite places which happens to be a local drinking establishment. As it is legitimately one of my favourite places to be the conversation comes across very natural... because it is natural. Then I suggest venturing there with me sometime (no specific date yet), as a rule they smile and say they'd like to. Then we get on to the logistics and make a plan, or I leave it a day or so, it depends on how you feel really.

This approach has been very successfull for me. Generally we venture there, have a wonderful time and somehow seem to end up at my house. :)
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The best way to ask her out?
Guessing it's over now guys. Was texting her after a couple days without texting her, invited her round as I had a free house and just said we can watch TV. Making it look like i wasn't after sex. Decided to go with inviting her round as last time she asked me if anyone else would be in etc.. so thought she may like it just being us two.

Anyway, she said she would get back to me, which she never did.

Guess next is the appropriate word.
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