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| Author: | Rebell [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How can I fix this situation! |
My girlfriend that I have been dating for over a month now is mad at me for no particular reason. We are both in med school and are going through a heavy midterm week. I invited her over on Friday, cooked for her and the plan was to study together at my place. But as you guys can imagine we didn't get much studying done that day and now she is mad at me for making her come over bc she is now stressed out and blames me that she may fail her exam bc of me which is a total bullshit bc she has been slacking during the entire semester. She has been acting really bitchy since sat ignoring my texts and telling me that she doesn't need anyone to care and that she is good on her own. Today, when I wrote her on fb good luck tomorrow you got this she just read it and there was no response. Now I think it was a bad move from me rewarding her for being a total bitch to me. I really like this girl and don't want to lose her so quick. How would you guys react in my situation? Go silence and see if she gets back to me? how should I react if I see her at school tomorrow? I don't want to come off needy and run after her. Thanks for your advice guys! |
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| Author: | Natty [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 12:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I fix this situation! |
Immature people always try to blame other people for their own problems and mistakes. You didn't do anything wrong, that's just how people are. Girls know better than to treat me that way, because they know I will next them at the drop of a hat. I reckon your girlfriend views you as weaker than her, and she is not afraid of losing you. You need to change that fast. |
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| Author: | Rebell [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 4:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I fix this situation! |
Are you suggesting that I dump her? She is the type of girl that acts like she is strong and doesn't give a shit about boys. But all that body language and the way she was craving for me and how she was in bed can't mean nothing. |
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| Author: | Natty [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I fix this situation! |
I suggest that everyone be single until they find what they think is the best possible mate. This is your decision, but I personally wouldn't put up with the behavior. |
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| Author: | Doom-bringer [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 9:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I fix this situation! |
You shouldnt have talked to her on fb, she is acting as if she is the prize, and not you. If I were you, I would break up with her. Either she will come back running, in which case she would buy into your frame, or she would move on, in which case you are better off, from what you've told us about it. She knows you are afraid of loosing her, and she is playing that card, show her that you are not  .
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| Author: | RealMe [ Thu Oct 17, 2013 4:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How can I fix this situation! |
Go no contact. You did nothing wrong. When she contacts you than you can behave as if nothing happened. Just stop thinking you did anything wrong, don't sound apologetic, because it's her fault. |
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