To make it short: GF of 3 years almost cheated -> then she wanted to leave me for him -> she wanted a break -> I broke up instead -> I won her back by going NC, becoming alpha and representing a solid frame. So the rebound guy lost.
No the problem:
I've become beta during our relationship and for the last couple of weeks, since the incident, I worked hard on myself und our relationship improved. It's still not where I want it to be but I know I'll get there. But all this happened during my finals in college and of course this did affect me being able to efficiently study. So I didn't tell her about two tests that I failed because of it but I actually passed one the same tests 4 weeks later so it all seemed to work out in the end. No need for her to know about it. Today though, I failed the second test and there is a chance it will jeopardize my bachelors degree. I'm still talking to my university about my options and not everyhing's lost yet - they said it should still be possible to get my degree. But how am I supposed to handle this in front of my GF? I did tell her about the situation and she was supportive and everything - so I can't complain here, but I also now that this definitely lowered my value in her eyes (and in my eyes too actually). I told her that this is not going to throw me back and I sometimes in life there are obstacles one needs to pass. So basically I didn't wine about it
and I actually do feel this way. I already am very successful at my current job - so no money issues here and I have a great career ahead. Do you guys think this could be a deal breaker for her anyway?Thx for some opinions
