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| Author: | Nebular [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 3:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Newb PUA: Need help with FWB situation.... |
My facts: Serious relationships had: 2 Number of girls banged: 3 I started PUA in the summer and had some success with it and only now have I landed my first "lay" I suppose. I been seeing this girl and she is pretty "modern" (modern meaning she's had relations with alot of different guys, butter it up all I want I suppose). I like her, but I feel like I'm sliding down a slippery slope, and I'm simply not at peace with it and need help with my inner philosophy. It also doesn't help that I'm OCD and over think/over focus on the entire situation too much. I've never done a FWB situation, and my other two girlfriends I courted relatively fast. I feel myself becoming more emotionally attached to this girl and the feelings just are not reciprocated. In a classic scenario, it seems to me like I'm more of the chick in this "relationship". I show her affection because I'm an affectionate person, and she receives it very well, but doesn't give much back. She seems to just want to fuck, and then anything else comes as an extra. Everything tells me she is not a safe girl to fall in love with and that she is unhealthy for me, but at the same time I do like her and I do feel like I need to deal with this sort of predicament even to contribute to my overall success with women. I guess what it comes to is, how do you guys deal with this sort of problem? Just continue sarging and keep yourself distracted? Any advice is extremely appreciated by this poor bastard with more heart than brain. |
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| Author: | Natty [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 5:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newb PUA: Need help with FWB situation.... |
Just send her my way I'll take care of her. |
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| Author: | Nebular [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 5:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newb PUA: Need help with FWB situation.... |
O great! Pm me your address |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newb PUA: Need help with FWB situation.... |
Clearly the advise here has to be to meet other women. You will only develop feelings for this one if there isn't anyone else that you like better. You have an open relationship. Act like it. Chances are good that you'll meet one or two other women who are a better fit for you, at which time you won't sweat this one not wanting more than FWB with you. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 7:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newb PUA: Need help with FWB situation.... |
Yeah, go fuck more women. Seven is the number, after seven you just won't care or even have it on your mind how many dudes fucked her. You've got four more to go, buddy! |
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| Author: | Nebular [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 10:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Newb PUA: Need help with FWB situation.... |
Thanks for the responses. I don't really care how many dudes she's had sex with, but I do know your advice is the truth; I'm an emotional person, but I'm not stupid. It only bothers me that I'm developing emotions for her, and she may not be. I guess only time will tell if this is going to go somewhere? Also, what do you mean by "act like it"? I'm not trying to be a smart ass, I just don't know how to act I guess, or if I would want to act like it. |
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