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| Author: | abstracted [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 4:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Orbiters orbiting too close |
So, my girlfriend has orbiters. Guess this is expected when you date a model. I don't expect infidelity, but I find her lack of respect for these men sad. One guy has been teaching her tennis, taking her to yoga classes. Today drops off pizza and pop to her house during girls night. Drove her around for errands a couple days after a surgery and she's couldn't drive due to painkillers (I'd spent the first day post surgery off work nursing her then returned to work). Comes to a house she's sitting to remove spiders prior to realtor showings. His intentions are clear, I've seen his messages. She makes no attempt to rebuff. Again, I'm not worried about infidelity, I think she doesn't rebuff so she can continue to enjoy the benefits. Her entitlement is beyond anyone Ive ever met. Is this to be expected with shb's? I'm not comfortable with her going elsewhere to meet her needs, yet she's become accustomed to men bending over backward her entire life and has never had to do a thing. So I'm not certain any one man can meet her needs. |
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| Author: | MrBreeze [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 5:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Orbiters orbiting too close |
First off, How do you treat her? An honest reflection, seriously. Also, How long have you been together and ages? Second, Im 100% certain she will or has fucked the guy youre describing. Shes not rebuffing them because she doesnt have to. Ive had too many GFs cheat on me to not see the signs. Yes, these GFs were hot. Really doesnt matter if shes smoking hot or not, its a mind set. In fact, the hotter they are the more orbiters there will be. Because shes hot. Classic conditioning would say that they orbit because somewhere there is a success to it. Not trying to be a dick just point out what Ive learned. Sounds like both of you value her more. Slippery slope my friend. I would accept infidelities as inevitable. If you want to keep her around I would get your own groupies and make sure she knows. Act like a man. Never be soft or predictable. Keep her interested or she'll be off... |
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| Author: | abstracted [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 6:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Orbiters orbiting too close |
Quote: First off, How do you treat her? An honest reflection, seriously. Also, How long have you been together and ages?
3 months committed, I'm 27 she's 25. I treat her well enough to make my mother proud. I've given her plenty of experiences she's never had before. That being said, my level of attention (daily, but I have a job) and money spending (all dates, but I don't buy her shit on top of that) certainly doesn't meet her expectations. She doesn't always reciprocate. I cut her some slack due to a troubled past that she is planning to attend counseling regarding. She want's to overcome her personal issues. I broke up with her over these personal issues recently, which is when she agreed to attend counseling. Certainly she feels less secure in the relationship than earlier on.Quote: Sounds like both of you value her more. Slippery slope my friend. I would accept infidelities as inevitable. If you want to keep her around I would get your own groupies and make sure she knows. Act like a man. Never be soft or predictable. Keep her interested or she'll be off...
Funny, while she "hates herself" sometimes, she does value herself too highly, not sure if higher than me. It's a ramification of her past. I value myself higher, but think with some work she would be equal value.
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| Author: | MrBreeze [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 7:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Orbiters orbiting too close |
Shiiiiiit, this sounds like a lot of work bro. |
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| Author: | abstracted [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 2:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Orbiters orbiting too close |
I decided to pull the plug and this time I think I am free. It's taken a month of trying to break up with her to do so. I believe 1/3 or some significant portion based on what women close to me have told me. I think it would be hard to completely avoid sexually abused women. However some of them aren't warped by it. I'll keep the warped ones at a distance in the future. |
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| Author: | Zirk13 [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Orbiters orbiting too close |
BY THE WAY THIS POST WENT: did you get rid of her because she has orbiters? Every girl I have ever met or known has orbiters |
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| Author: | abstracted [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Orbiters orbiting too close |
No, there was a tonne of stuff going on. |
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