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Author:  BigBoyHood [ Tue Aug 20, 2013 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Insecure about sex

Hello guys my girlfriend comes this week sleeping.
But im insecure about having sex and really see it as a big thing
i had once a girl who wanted to stroke me while i was fingering her
And i couldnt get a (hard) boner.
Any of u had this problem before or know how to help me
I love this girl and dont wanne fuck things up
please reply

Author:  Chemicals [ Wed Aug 21, 2013 8:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Insecure about sex

Do you jack off or look at porn?

Author:  BigBoyHood [ Wed Aug 21, 2013 10:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Insecure about sex

Yes

Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Wed Aug 21, 2013 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Insecure about sex

You just need to be more relaxed with the situation. If it happens again, then go down on her for awhile until you get your head straight. Do what you would normally do to jack off and enlist her help (it's not very different than watching porn. However, in this case the porn can reach out and touch you). Spend a lot of time on foreplay (making out, etc.). Maybe get her to give you a massage.

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

Author:  fishnwomen [ Thu Aug 22, 2013 2:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Insecure about sex

Don't jack off as much, you might be desensitizing your dick. Eat healthier- nuts, fruits, vegetables, and lean protein will do wonders for you in the long run. I am pretty sure every guy has had this problem at some point. It's normal, maybe the girl didn't know what she was doing, maybe you jerked off a bunch before she came over, maybe you were tired, maybe you have performance anxiety. Don't worry about it so much next time.

Author:  wingintyme [ Thu Aug 22, 2013 2:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Insecure about sex

ask yourself, is women truly what you are after

Author:  Adonis_Complex [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 10:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Insecure about sex

Stop watching porn, and keep the masturbation to a minimum. (once maybe twice a week) Your sex drive will shoot up, and it will be easier to get aroused around women.

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