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| Author: | dynamation [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 2:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | What to do if you are in a LTR? |
I am in a LTR and I miss my gf. I just want to send her random text all the time but I am trying very hard to refrain from doing so since it is needy. She even told me this one, she doesnt want to be adored and worried about. She doesn't really initiate contact with me either, so what can I do to stop myself from wanting to talk to her? |
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| Author: | DKWEd [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 4:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do if you are in a LTR? |
Quote: I am in a LTR and I miss my gf. I just want to send her random text all the time but I am trying very hard to refrain from doing so since it is needy. She even told me this one, she doesnt want to be adored and worried about.
Go get yourself busy Bro. Find some hobbies and things to do that you can be passionate about. Take a class like salsa dancing (sounds gay but hear me out) - most of the time you take the class then hang out with the people and practice or go to a bar after. Hang out with your friends and go do some cool stuff, most comedy clubs are like $5-$10 weeknights. Hang out with your family.She doesn't really initiate contact with me either, so what can I do to stop myself from wanting to talk to her? Being busy with interesting things will not only prevent you from texting her but it will also give you more value and help you be a more interesting person... |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 8:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do if you are in a LTR? |
I've replied to your other thread. Basically get out or make her a fuck buddy and get a normal girl. How long you have to travel to see her ? |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Fri Aug 16, 2013 4:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do if you are in a LTR? |
Quote: I am in a LTR and I miss my gf. I just want to send her random text all the time but I am trying very hard to refrain from doing so since it is needy. She even told me this one, she doesnt want to be adored and worried about.
A relationship is supposed to be MUTUAL. Remember this. Both people invest, both people commit, both people initiate contact, etc. If you are not happy with the way the relationship is going, tell her, and if she changes something, compromises, then great, if not, then look to find a girl who actually fits your wants and needs in a relationship.
She doesn't really initiate contact with me either, so what can I do to stop myself from wanting to talk to her? |
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