Jordan,

Man. I just replied to your other post.

The answer for you is that you should not pursue your ex after this meetup. At least not now. You need to work on yourself. Find another chick, blow a nut in her a couple times, and THEN decide if and how you should pursue your ex. You've got oneitis, it happens, but you gotta get over it or it's gonna ruin your chances with her forever. You sound like a stalker man. Snap out of it. There are other women, many of them are hot, and cool, and like to fuck. Find some of them, and then decide if it's worth all the extra effort with an ex.

Clearly she is not over you, but you're not helping her stay that way. If you ask me, your best bet to get her back is to quit with the games and shit. Go straight to her house, tell her flat out you aren't over her, you hate that you screwed it all up, and that you want to make it right. And if she says no, then drop it, accept it, and leave. Realize that when women say no, they mean, no, not right now. That doesn't mean 6 months from now when you are doing well, looking good, and are high value that the answer is no then.

But you're killing yourself here man, and any value you thought you had.

vhou812's advice is good.

Definitely do not do anything for a week. You came on way too strong and if you open up to her now, she'll think you're just saying that to get into her pants... Especially since you told her you're not looking for something serious.
Take a break, think about what you wanna say, go out hook up with someone else, whatever but do not contact her. This is vital, because of the "nothing serious" comment earlier you will look very unstable if you change your mind within such a short time.

After a while contact her again; tell her you're coming over in a few of days to talk. Let her know date and time, but not on the same day of course (that'd be too creepy). When you meet, open up to her and be absolutely honest.
Like vhou said, game time is over. Follow his advice - this is about a potential committed relationship which is what she wants and doesn't think you can give her.

I think you are way past phone calls and without a doubt beyond facebook messaging. Call her in a few days and tell her to meet up. Like the above poster said be honest, but not about the fake facebook profiles of course Time to have a serious conversation and see where you stand. GOOD LUCK

In your boat, it's bad. Really bad. Part of the problem is that she thinks she's nothing special to you. Sometimes ya gotta do something to prove that isn't true.

I wouldn't call her. I wouldn't text her. I'd just knock on her door and ask her to talk. If need be, say it on her doorstep. If she slams the door in your face, then take the hint.

But, I still wouldn't make this advice my first choice. I'd try to game another chick and give it a few weeks first.

In your boat, it's bad. Really bad. Part of the problem is that she thinks she's nothing special to you. Sometimes ya gotta do something to prove that isn't true.

I wouldn't call her. I wouldn't text her. I'd just knock on her door and ask her to talk. If need be, say it on her doorstep. If she slams the door in your face, then take the hint.

But, I still wouldn't make this advice my first choice. I'd try to game another chick and give it a few weeks first.

Thanks, I see what you mean. Actions speak louder than words, especially with women. But I thought calling her out of the blue would still speak volumes and not give off as much of a stalkerish/creepy vibe that suddenly showing up at her house would. I don't want to creep her out and scare her off completely. Doing that reminds me of something from a romantic comedy, and I've drilled into my head that those movies are unrealistic and men's actions in them are ineffective. Speaking on the phone would also allow me to read something if I wanted to actually prepare something to tell her.

This is a serious question. Do you actually read the useful advice people give to you here, or just the one that validates your actions ?