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| Author: | worldy [ Wed Aug 07, 2013 10:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Losing interest, relationship commitment |
Hi all, Please can someone point out what is going on. I enjoy the chase of getting with a new girl, then when I am dating her I will focus on her and not game anyone else. (Lazy more than anything) It will plod along for a few weeks/months, but I'll realise when it's getting that bit more serious that I dont fancy her anymore or put her in the "shes the one" category. e.g. I cant be bothered or overly keen to see herm rather have my own time. I usually stop fancying them for a number of reasons. I don't think its a commitment phobia, it's almost I will take what I can get for the ride as something is better than nothing, but if something better comes up I will go for it. I havent been in a relationship for around 5yrs, but at the same time I havent met my ideal girl yet. I think I get interested in others for an ego boost/self esteem or perhaps I might fancy them later. Any thoughts? |
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| Author: | Semimembranosus [ Wed Aug 07, 2013 10:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Losing interest, relationship commitment |
what exactly do you want to know? |
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| Author: | worldy [ Wed Aug 07, 2013 11:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Losing interest, relationship commitment |
Good question. I shouldn't care what others have got, but I want a relationship, I look at alot of people and they walk into relationships with ease. For me, I dont know if I am extra picky or what..... I seem to find all the negatives in someone which puts me off them. |
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| Author: | Semimembranosus [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 12:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Losing interest, relationship commitment |
what’s your question? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 1:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Losing interest, relationship commitment |
Perhaps youre spending too much time with the girl to build any tension and miss her |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 2:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Losing interest, relationship commitment |
thats a pathological issue, most of the successful PUA's on this forum have that same pathology, for good and bad. |
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| Author: | worldy [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Losing interest, relationship commitment |
@Semimembranosus Why do I always look for the negatives in someone and not just fall for them? |
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