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| Author: | El_Diablo [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 8:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | egoist gf |
Been dating 10 months, lately seems like the last month when we hang out with my friends or do things I want to do she has a bad attitude, when we go out with her friends she is the greatest person ever, funny, loving, good attitude and we have a really good time, but the truth is she never want to do what I want. I wanted to go on a trip to the beach with her for the weekend and she is not interested, but now she is telling me that she wants us to go on a couples trip with all her friends and their partners. This seems rough for me because we are only dating and I am starting to trip that if things go to the next level it will be about her all the time, tried talking to her and says thats she tries but because all my friends are older and married she doesnt identify with them, she is 5 years younger than me (30 and 25) Should I give it time or end it Cold Turkey?? Really like her but I really cant stand her attitude lately .. in need of good and honest opinions. Thanks allot ... |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 10:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: egoist gf |
Seems like a crossroads. Sounds like she has stated her issues with doing things with your friends. Up to you how to proceed, but it generally isn't healthy to give up all your friends for her and hers. I would tell her that you're not willing to give up your friends like that, and she shouldn't ask you to. There should be a healthy balance of both her friends, your friends, and alone time for both you with both groups as well. Her response to that would tell me whether it's time for it to be over or if the issue can be worked through. |
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| Author: | El_Diablo [ Tue Aug 06, 2013 7:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: egoist gf |
Quote: Seems like a crossroads. Sounds like she has stated her issues with doing things with your friends. Up to you how to proceed, but it generally isn't healthy to give up all your friends for her and hers.
Thanks for the reply. I will give it time, I was a little angry yesterday and I'm glad I didn't do anything hot headed. I already had the talk with her, lets see how this plays out in the future. Cheers, thanks allot ..
I would tell her that you're not willing to give up your friends like that, and she shouldn't ask you to. There should be a healthy balance of both her friends, your friends, and alone time for both you with both groups as well. Her response to that would tell me whether it's time for it to be over or if the issue can be worked through. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: egoist gf |
Open up an honest non-judgmental dialogue about your friends and her you're a couple shouldn't you be able to talk about things? One of the determinants of success in a relationship is how the two people navigate through potentially troubled waters. You either grow together through situations or apart. |
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