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Author:  SellMachine [ Sat Aug 03, 2013 12:55 am ]
Post subject:  from abundance to one-itus
I am 22 and just finished university, i had 1 year of that spent single and living independently with fellow students. In the space of a year i developed solid game, not amazing but i was getting good results, i was happy living an abundance lifestyle, dating various women and sleeping with lots of women. I was free and happy developing my game and self-improvement this way until i finished university and had to move back with my parents, who frankly don't agree with me bringing one-night stands home with me. I come from a small-town where options are very limited and i don't drive or anything, so my chances of freedom are put on hold. There are only a few pubs and every night you go out there's hardly any targets, i've been back for a month now, and my plan was to meet girls and date them however recently i found myself gaming a girl in a bar and it went really well, been on a couple dates but she's just told me she's not looking for a relationship and even though i am neither myself i still felt a little down by this. I want to sleep with lots of girls but i don't have my own place so its hard otherwise i would have just slept with her already. I think i've found myself getting a bit of one-itus, as there isn't really a chance of an abundance of women so its usually one girl at any given time so i get easily attached, even though a relationship is not what i want.

So after the girl has said this, do i carry on dating her? And how do i get out of this one-itus effect when i live in a small town. My parents only allow me to have girlfriends around, so how do i keep up this lifestyle? I know find a job and move out is the best thing, i'm working on that but at the moment i'm in a lot of debt. It seems the girls around here just assume that if you date them you are only after a relationship, i want basically what i had at uni, how do you maintain a similar lifestyle. My field report for tonight sees me going out in order to sarge but seeing no targets around whatsoever other than the previous girl i've been dating, so from her perspective it looks like i'm stalking her so i keep my distance and explain to her this is not what i am doing, and that's when she tells me she's not looking for a relationship, making things ever so slightly awkward. We've been kissing on our dates and that's about it, but she says we should carry on seeing each other as friends like we've been doing. I don't know whether to keep on seeing her and try to escalate something more, bearing in mind she's a strong 8, and i don't have the abundance option, i've been sarging as much as i can, but not been seeing the success i've had at university, i'm not outcome dependant but its just a harder level of game in this small town. People are a lot more up tighter here, people stick to their social circles, and game is a lot more frowned upon than in the city.
Author:  slurp812 [ Sat Aug 03, 2013 5:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: from abundance to one-itus
Women pick up on that neediness stuff and usually run. You still have to act/feel abundant. Fuck if I can always pull it off, but it is what we have to do.
Author:  Zapend [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: from abundance to one-itus
Dude, if you are really that interested in bringing girls to your own place then get your own place. It can't be that hard.

Not sure what "town" you live in, but most towns I've been to if you try hard you can get your own place for not too expensive... even if it's a motel room... at least someplace to bring girls home to. I told a girl that I lived in this motel once (I did) and she was totally cool with it, it just adds to that "crazy dude" vibe that chicks dig (or at least the chicks my crazy ass is able to pick up).
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