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Author:  tb1211 [ Thu Aug 01, 2013 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  New gf... confused on whats going on
So roughly 2 months ago met a girl through mutual friends. We hit it off and made plans to go out, ever since then we have been hanging out every weekend, and even went out of town together for a weekend. I took her as my date to a wedding 2 weeks ago and everything went well. We have already had sex a number of times and the night after the wedding I discussed what direction we were going. She said she assumed we were dating and she was not talking with any other guys. Before she would txt me all day, tell me goodnight or that she was going to bed, she even did this while on a cruise with her family in Alaska. Over the last week she has stopped all this, and rarely texts me anymore. She would send sexual messages, thia has stopped and when I send one I do not hear back, when I used to always. The last 3 days she hasn't txt me at all and when I would send a message, I would never get a response. I asked if everything is alright or if I had said something, and she said no everything is good.

I was supposed to see her last night but she canceled saying she had a rough day and would like to reschedule for tonight and to not take it personally. I told her that's fine, should I just play it cool and see how she acts tonight. Or do I need to bring up the fact that she is clearly ignoring me. Any advice on my situation?!?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Aug 01, 2013 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New gf... confused on whats going on
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I discussed what direction we were going.
Whoops! Only two months in and seeking validation?

your becoming, needy/clingy.
Quote:
The last 3 days she hasn't txt me at all and when I would send a message, I would never get a response. I asked if everything is alright or if I had said something, and she said no everything is good.
Here are the three biggest signs you are about to FUCK UP.
1. You start thinking “I don’t want to play games with this chick. I like her. Why can’t I just let her know.” "Why can't she let ME know?"
2. You think “This girl is different, I don’t have to play games with her.”
3. You think “She definitely likes me. We’re past the point I need to play games.”

Your no longer becoming a challenge, your easy to predict.

Always available.
Always cooperative, and forgiving.

You need to 'undo' this, and fucking QUICK!
Author:  tb1211 [ Thu Aug 01, 2013 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New gf... confused on whats going on
Thanks! So what is my best course of action for tonight if I end up seeing her? Im assuming I should just stop texting her all together?

I haven't been in a relationship for over 2 years, just figured when dating a girl you would at least get a response to a message or a call back.
Author:  Doom-bringer [ Thu Aug 01, 2013 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: New gf... confused on whats going on
You need to show this bitch her place, one way or another. If she keeps it up for while, play the LJBF card and friendzone her, that will make her shiver enough to change her behavior ;) But leave the last advice for when your frustration and her bitchness reach a threshold.
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