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Author:  bitanga [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 11:25 am ]
Post subject:  Why women cheat?

What is the reason for women to cheat? I have few friends with this problem, and i would like to learn why is this happening? One friend was in relationship 5 or 6 years, last year his girlfriend was with him and one other at same time...Other friend also had same problem, but he broke up with his gf when he found out...From my point of view they both was to into them...they (gf's) controled them...in Serbia we call that type of guy's Papučari (it means man who wear slippers. literally)! Both was in long relationship, and in the end they was cheated...why? Is there some pattern for this? Or gf's was bored with them?

Author:  hustler101 [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 12:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

Because women are liars, the truth isnt the feminine domain
You have to be controlling in a relationship when you don't feel her as close to you anymore.. be always on her ass..

Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 4:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

Quote:
Because women are liars, the truth isnt the feminine domain
You have to be controlling in a relationship when you don't feel her as close to you anymore.. be always on her ass..
I think this is terrible advice. Also, women are liars because men can't handle it when they are honest. True Story. Slut shaming is bad for society... it forces women to lie about their sexuality.

Okay, now to answer the question. Different types of girls cheat for different reasons. This is why screening is so important. Freaks (i.e. validation seekers) cheat for the drama and the attention. These types are the girls who cheat the most. Sex is a form of validation and they thrive on strong emotions (positive or negative). Freaks are NOT long-term relationship material (unless you know what you're doing).

Good Girls cheat when they are unhappy in their relationships. You don't really have to worry about these girls unless there are already obvious problems with your relationship.

Girls in very long-term relationships: long-term monogamy just doesn't work very well. Biologically, we aren't built for it. Our bodies produce strong endorphins during the first 2 years of a relationship and for several years when we have young children. The endorphins make us happy, horny, and make us feel like we are "in love". When the endorphins stop, then people tend to either cheat on each other or break up (or stay together for reasons other than sex, such as shared life goals, children).

-Wolf

Author:  hustler101 [ Wed Jul 24, 2013 3:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

I often fantasize about becoming overly jealous and starting a fight with my girl... then when she starts denying I just lay my hands on her and throw her against the wall and start to choke her while saying things to her like "you cheating bitch"

Author:  Zapend [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

This is an experimental theory that is not backed by solid sociological studies: but women are extremely sexual (more so than most men acknowledge), and I would venture that most women cheat because they want the sex that comes with it. But be forewarned, this is just a theory.

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

Because they get BORED. If a guy isn't fucking his girl right, she will get it from somewhere else.

Author:  Semimembranosus [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 1:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

during ovulation women like men that are popular among women and have better sperm. women cheat because they are looking for a better sperm. women can get any sperm they want. that is they way we are made. women choose the best sperm. and husbands are not for sex, husbands are for money and providing for children. ofcourse she would try to attach a guy with popular sperm as a husband but because he has many women she does not succeed, or if she succeed she will always be upset because he meets other women.

Author:  MrSparks [ Fri Aug 09, 2013 2:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

Well as a guy, why would you cheat:

Maybe they are a good person but you just don't feel all that attracted but she might be too stupid or shy to tell you she wants to break up. I've had a girl suffer through a lot of my bullshit because she wouldn't speak up and just expect me to read minds to figure out what is wrong. That's a lot of stupidity right there.

She's not ready to settle down. Ask a club girl if she's ready to stay with a guy for the next 10 years. She probably isn't looking for Mr Right and you might just be a fwb that she calls a boyfriend. If you see her once or twice a week and it's mostly for sex you are her boyfriend because she doesn't know what else to call you. She wants to fuck and some guys take it too seriously.

In the examples you show the girls are bossy and controlling. Maybe they aren't controlling is they key. Maybe they just are fed up with the guy they are with. If the girl is getting angry a lot about a guys actions she's going to stop feeling in love with him even if she pretends to be happy elsewhere. But when she's not in love the relationship is over.

Don't misjudge and say it's hormones or evolution. That's an excuse and not a reason. If you believe it's something you can't control then you are just venting. You can fix lack of attraction you can't fix hormones.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 4:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women cheat?

Quote:
Because women are liars, the truth isnt the feminine domain
You have to be controlling in a relationship when you don't feel her as close to you anymore.. be always on her ass..
Wow, bet you suck hard at relationships.

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