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| Author: | Atlas1 [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Moral Issues with MLTR... |
Having a moral delima here. Been "dating" a girl relatively exclusively for about 1 year now. From the very begining, I set the expectation that I did not want to be exclusive. Something like: "I've had some issues in the past, getting out of a very long term relationship. I'd like to date around and figure out what I like/want in a girl. Obviously I understand if you do the same" Problem is, neither of us have really done it in a year. Yet, both our facebook statuses say single. Now I have a date tonight...and I feel guilty about it. I really like the current girl, but frankly, I think I can do better. I don't have the passion for her... But I like spending time with her and we get along well! Is it wrong to want to keep hanging out with her while looking for something better? Should I talk to her again and let her know specifically that I'm going on a date or is that just not her business? I'm wrestling with the whole "make sure I leave her better than when I found her..."...am I violating this? |
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| Author: | Wolfwoodd [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 8:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Moral Issues with MLTR... |
Here's a good question: If you mention the date the next time you see her, do you expect her to get upset? I mean, does she expect you to be monogamous (based on your actions)? I would mention the date in passing, without going into details (unless something comical happens during the date). If you want to sub-communicate that she should be seeing other people, then just gradually cut down on how often you make plans with the girl (i.e. only see her once a week). Make yourself more unavailable. -Wolf |
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