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| Author: | Kabi [ Fri Jul 19, 2013 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need life changing advice |
Hey guys! If you're reading this you could be helping me, not only with my current relationship. But with every one of them. So I ask you kindly, to just read this, and to give me some kind of advice. If you choose to help out, thank you for taking your time to help me! I need some relationship advice. I have had somewhat stupid problems with girls that i've learned later on, but I consider myself as a good PUA. Im not the best guy at relationships. Im great on giving advice, but im not good at having a relationship haha. Anyways i've been going trough some deep shit on the past month. - Overthinking (trying to find out if she is cheating) - Paranoia (is she cheating on me kind of shit) - Low self-esteem - Trust issues (I have no reason for not trusting my gf, its because of my overthinking & paranoia) I know that overthinking creates emotions inside me that makes me sad and vulnerable. Im stupid enough to think like I do. But I also know that almost every guy does this. So I tried figure out why I think about all these stuff, and only good reason is because of low self-esteem. Also because I value her alot. And i dont want to be made a fool of. I havent really sarged for months. I see no point in it anymore. I can admit that I have become soft. But that doesn't have to be a bad thing! I really want to become better at relationships for future purposes. I want to be that kind of guy that can have a relationship and still be fun. I can still be myself around my friends and in company with women. I want to make my gf happy, and not be that kind of overthinking-paranoia-sucker that I am now. So I need to start thinking about postive stuff, and stop worrying about who shes with, what she does, is she alone or with someone. Whos texting, whos talks to her on FB. I have become a madman! Help me to not become a madman! Help me towards a better relationship. Im the only one that can turn the tables. |
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| Author: | ASmoothEminence [ Sun Jul 21, 2013 7:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need life changing advice |
Read PsychoCybernetics. It gives you insight on how your brain works. It will be better advice than most of what people will respond with. |
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