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Author:  Summa [ Fri Jul 12, 2013 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Proper thing to do when she's gone?
Hey guys,

I've gotten some really good advice from the guys on this forum so before i start, kudos :)

So this girl i've been seeing and am really close to recently had family issues. The thing is her dad is over protective but he let me date his daughter because he likes me as a person. Recently though he uncovered her past with her past boyfriends and i guess he wasn't too impressed because now she's in a serious hole and her dad won't let her talk to anyone. Yikes! over protective relationships are a drag :?

Anyway the point is now she can't talk to me for a good month or two, we can't see each other and she can't text or message me either. I know i like this girl and i want to wait it out but truth be told i have absolutely no patience and many times throughout the day i find myself missing her. Keep in mind how bad that sounds, because at this very moment i have no idea what she's doing/feeling/missing about me.

I fill the time space with talking to tons of more people to get my mind of her but then when i'm alone i find myself thinking about her and get a gut-wrenching feeling cause this could very easily scrap our relationship all together :cry:

Do you guys have any tips on how you can stop thinking about the girl you love for months? I know it sounds absurd but i do like this chick. I'm also considering just asking one of her gf's to ask her straight up whether or not i'll be talking to her again, but does that sound needy?

any help would be appreciated guys
Author:  Summa [ Fri Jul 12, 2013 8:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Proper thing to do when she's gone?
Cmon guys, anyone?

Hasn't anyone of you ever had to simply wait and see in any of your relationships, and then had to cope with the gut wrenching feeling that goes with it? :shock:
Author:  Summa [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 2:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Proper thing to do when she's gone?
Ok well.

This is more of a guilt trip for myself. So i talked to her and she said she never stopped thinking about me and missing me but that we can only talk to each other very rarely. Tbh i love this chick but there's no way i'm wasting the rest of my life waiting for a chick who i only get to talk to once a month, so i told her we were through. Even though i talk to her best friend that is always with her everyday still.

Sucks that no one replied, but i guess this kind of question doesn't belong here anyway. Now all I'm coping with is that gut wrenching feeling you get when you lose someone so close.

If anyone wants to answer this still, how do you guys get over that? Or is the best thing to do just sarge with as many great girls as you can, and not get hooked on one? It's funny because i'm asking people for break-up advice on a forum made for learning to bang multiple females, but if anyone has got anything, EVEN HARSH WORDS, i'll take it.

Sorry if this doesn't belong here, you can delete it if it doesn't.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 5:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Proper thing to do when she's gone?
Hang a big punching/kicking bag at your ceiling and then do some bagwork. Reach specific goals like 500 jabs, 500 straight punches, 200 roundhouse head kicks, 200 roundhouse leg kicks and so on. The point is to tire yourself so when you lay in bed, you'll easily fall asleep without thinking about anything.

Basic principle: Get busy.

:twisted:
Author:  Summa [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 7:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Proper thing to do when she's gone?
Quote:
Hang a big punching/kicking bag at your ceiling and then do some bagwork. Reach specific goals like 500 jabs, 500 straight punches, 200 roundhouse head kicks, 200 roundhouse leg kicks and so on. The point is to tire yourself so when you lay in bed, you'll easily fall asleep without thinking about anything.

Basic principle: Get busy.

:twisted:
Thanks for the reply.

Yeah the thought of forgetting her seems far more appealing then sulking over her. Any other experiences you guys have had?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Proper thing to do when she's gone?
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Thanks for the reply.

Yeah the thought of forgetting her seems far more appealing then sulking over her. Any other experiences you guys have had?
In addition to the bagwork, I've had also fucked 4 other girls on the regular just to forget about this girl whom I fell in love with several years back before I got into PUA. In the past, for me she's hot and hot girls are difficult to forget. But now, no more. I'm now so used to even hotter girls it doesn't really matter.

Basic PUA rule is: Go sarge 10 other women every day.

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Author:  Summa [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 9:48 pm ]
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Thanks for the reply.

Yeah the thought of forgetting her seems far more appealing then sulking over her. Any other experiences you guys have had?
In addition to the bagwork, I've had also fucked 4 other girls on the regular just to forget about this girl whom I fell in love with several years back before I got into PUA. In the past, for me she's hot and hot girls are difficult to forget. But now, no more. I'm now so used to even hotter girls it doesn't really matter.

Basic PUA rule is: Go sarge 10 other women every day.

:twisted:
So that you don't get stuck thinking about just one, makes perfect sense. Thanks guys, yeah i'll never forget this girl but meeting new girls sounds like a plan.

Out of curiosity, is that the reason a bunch of people join this forum? I've seen plenty of threads with people talking about not getting stuck on one girl, but banging 10 instead.

Maybe a serious relationship with every girl you meet is the wrong idea :roll: Any thoughts?
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