Hi Everyone,

Here is my issue... I'm dating a pageant girl (HB9.5). It's been a year now. Things are pretty good. She knows she is good looking, loves to dress up (makeup, heels, clothing, etc).

Now she isn't the SMARTest person... doesn't really have a good job/education. I have a great education, make over 100k, my own house, etc. She makes 20k, lives with her parents.

She is also sometimes a negative person, i.e. working 25-30hours a week and complaining she is tired...easy things like driving 20 min to see me stress her house.

I can look by all of that....sex is great...don't get a lot of BJ's. (only a couple in the last year)

Here what I'm looking to do...right now she is happy she has me, thinks she is lucky... however she thinks I'm lucky to have such a beautiful girlfriend.

I'm always the good guy...looking to see how I can re-frame this relationship to make it clear she should be happy she has me, and should try her best to keep me.

I was reading up on rewards which is something I dont do that much with a purpose...(just do it all the time).