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Author:  Roosvicee [ Fri May 31, 2013 4:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Just broke up with her..
Thanks for reading :)

Yesterday I posted a thread called: ''Weird relationship if you ask me''. weird-relationship-if-you-ask-me-vt163171.html

I just broke up with her, the relationship didn't feel right, she cried and I was very calm. I told her it is the best thing for us to break up, she said: "yes, maybe it is the best, I don't know" She wanted to be friends and I said I don't want contact for a while, she didn't like that.

I've said a stupid thing I think, she told me she still loves me and I said I love her too.. I think I shouldn't have said that..

Is there a possibility that I can get her back in a few months? I can go to a party tomorrow and she will be there too, isn't it weird for me to be there because I just broke up with her, I told her that we (my friends and I) weren't sure if we were going.. What should I do? I appreciate your help guys :)
Author:  Miami_J [ Fri May 31, 2013 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just broke up with her..
Quote:
Thanks for reading :)

Yesterday I posted a thread called: ''Weird relationship if you ask me''. weird-relationship-if-you-ask-me-vt163171.html

I just broke up with her, the relationship didn't feel right, she cried and I was very calm. I told her it is the best thing for us to break up, she said: "yes, maybe it is the best, I don't know" She wanted to be friends and I said I don't want contact for a while, she didn't like that.

I've said a stupid thing I think, she told me she still loves me and I said I love her too.. I think I shouldn't have said that..

Is there a possibility that I can get her back in a few months? I can go to a party tomorrow and she will be there too, isn't it weird for me to be there because I just broke up with her, I told her that we (my friends and I) weren't sure if we were going.. What should I do? I appreciate your help guys :)
You should go to the party and show her your having a great time without her. They always come crawling back when they see this. Game other girls and do your own thing. You don't have ignore her but don't constantly be around her.
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Fri May 31, 2013 8:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just broke up with her..
Go to the party. Just be decent about it. Don't act weird.. just be nice and treat her like any other cute girl at the party. It didn't work out.. it happens. You did the rational thing. The best case scenario is that you can now be friends and you can put her to use as an attractive female orbiter (it's good social proof).

-Wolf
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Fri May 31, 2013 8:54 pm ]
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Go live your life man. Don't worry about a few months until a few months. Cross the bridge when you get to it. Worrying is going to get you nowhere. If you are going to a party, then party.

She's a girl at a party. If anyone's going to be jealous it's you. She can fuck any guy there. If you aren't scooping for yourself then she's going to make you look like a douche.

You're going to have to live with the consequences of your decision, whether good or bad.

GFTOW
Author:  Roosvicee [ Fri May 31, 2013 11:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just broke up with her..
Thanks guys, Im going to the party and game other girls! Should I also go for the kisscloses or is that disrespectful?
Author:  vhou812 [ Sat Jun 01, 2013 4:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just broke up with her..
Personally, K closing would be more sting than it's worth.

If I'm in your shoes, I'm working hard for the K closes, and if you have one on the line and the girl is around, point blank state that you'd like to kiss the girl, but you just broke up with someone, she is there, and you don't want to make her feel any worse than it already is.

This does 2 things. DHV, you're a great guy who cares about people even if you're done dating them. This makes you more attractive, plus the girl can't have her kiss, which builds anticipation, makes you unattainable at the moment.
Author:  Roosvicee [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 11:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just broke up with her..
So, I went to the party, everything went great till the end.. I had a great time with my friends and other girls, she came a few times to me saying that she misses me, I didn't respond with I miss you too, I didn't because if I am with my friends I feel just great actually and won't think about her. There came a song and I was singing aloud with another girl, a little bit of kino and my ex was standing close to me, after a while she came to me grabbed my ass and tried to kiss me.. we didn't. Did I handle this good? Maybe I should have kissed her, I don't know..

But things went wrong when I wanted to go home, I went outside and there came a girlfriend of her, completely drunk!! She would sleep the night at my ex's house. So, I couldn't leave her there so I went back inside to get my ex, she came and we dragged her girlfriend to her house.. the girlfriend went inside and we had a talk outside..

She said she misses me and still loves me, I didn't react to it (should I have reacted with the same to this?) she cried non stop and was upset because I updated my facebook status to single (she hasn't updated hers yet), she said it was probably the best thing for us to quit it but she doesn't want to lose me (I said to her that I want no contact for a while), she didn't understand it.. We talked almost every day for 7 months and now I don't want to talk to her anymore.. I apologised but I said I thought it was the best for me.. I said that I'm going to home, she asked me to text her if I got safe home, I told her I haven't got her number anymore, shouldn't have said that but I have deletered hers, I want to forget her you know.... She got mad at me for not giving a shit etc.. I went home after this after apologising and gave her a long hug, she was still crying..

I texted her that I got home and if she wanted a talk about it I would do it, she wasn't sure.

This morning I got a text saying: Dont forget that I am still here for you if you need me and that I really love and miss you.

How should I react to that text and how did I handle this if I ever want her back? Thanks

note: we both had many drinks..

EDIT: she said it was the best thing for us to quit it because the "in love" feelings are gone, do you know what I mean? Thats normal after 7 months right..
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