Hey guys first post. Been reading this forum for a long time though. Love it.

Anyway, decided to sign up for this thread.

The last 4 women I've dated all had ex-boyfriend issues. The first was living with her ex, I got out, 2 others I was a rebound, which was fine, but couldn't take it farther than FBs, and the last went back to her ex and I cut contact.

So in the past year & a half I've had some experiences with dealing with girl's and their ex's.

Met this girl about 2 months ago. After 2 weeks she came over one day and told me that her ex (they had broken up a few months prior) and her were going to have a talk and she wanted to hear what he had to say. I am pretty sure he broke up with her, though I am not positive. I told her thats fine & I respected her honesty, but I don't want to be involved with drama (On the outside that was cool, but deep down I wanted to scream because of what happened previously). Few days later she told me she was ready to be mine fully. I was hesitant, but I decided to go with the flow & try to not let myself get attached.

She has been a great girl with me since then. I know for a fact she's extremely attracted to me & likes me a ton. However I can sometimes sense that her ex is still on her mind. For example she makes a lot of facebook status's about moving on etc, shit like that. There was another small incident that had something to do with her ex, but it wasn't a big deal. Anyway...

Am I overthinking things? Should I get out? I'm a more emotional guy than others. I want to fall in love with this woman, but I don't want to get sucked in and get shat on lol...Thoughts?