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Author:  R00k [ Tue May 14, 2013 2:33 am ]
Post subject:  Pick up = Impossible relationships

So i just got into this pua about a month or so ago. So far i've been doing pretty well but, at the moment im talking to this girl and she says she doesn't want to get into anything with me because she knows that im a "Pick up artist" and i play games with girls
I am not desperate about getting in a relationship with this girl, I just want to hook up and practice my skills, but what she said is bothering me.
Will We not be able to get into serious relationships in the future due to our reputations of pick up artists?
I suppose it might be different for me because i am still in school and girls tend to talk about guys and gossip about who flirts with everyone.
Still, im a little upset about this. Should i just move one in order to avoid getting "One itis" and if i do end up hooking up with this girl, how do i avoid the awkward moment when i prove her right and not stay in a relationship with her. Just looking for a few thoughts on this.
-R00k

Author:  Themagicalone [ Tue May 14, 2013 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

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So i just got into this pua about a month or so ago. So far i've been doing pretty well but, at the moment im talking to this girl and she says she doesn't want to get into anything with me because she knows that im a "Pick up artist" and i play games with girls
I am not desperate about getting in a relationship with this girl, I just want to hook up and practice my skills, but what she said is bothering me.
Will We not be able to get into serious relationships in the future due to our reputations of pick up artists?
I suppose it might be different for me because i am still in school and girls tend to talk about guys and gossip about who flirts with everyone.
Still, im a little upset about this. Should i just move one in order to avoid getting "One itis" and if i do end up hooking up with this girl, how do i avoid the awkward moment when i prove her right and not stay in a relationship with her. Just looking for a few thoughts on this.
-R00k
I'd move and game many other girls, she has a prior mind set about PUAs and anything you do she's going to analyze carefully which will get to be annoying. If you do get with her be honest and let her know you aren't looking for a relationship

Author:  zmbcm1 [ Tue May 14, 2013 3:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

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So i just got into this pua about a month or so ago. So far i've been doing pretty well but, at the moment im talking to this girl and she says she doesn't want to get into anything with me because she knows that im a "Pick up artist" and i play games with girls
I am not desperate about getting in a relationship with this girl, I just want to hook up and practice my skills, but what she said is bothering me.
Will We not be able to get into serious relationships in the future due to our reputations of pick up artists?
I suppose it might be different for me because i am still in school and girls tend to talk about guys and gossip about who flirts with everyone.
Still, im a little upset about this. Should i just move one in order to avoid getting "One itis" and if i do end up hooking up with this girl, how do i avoid the awkward moment when i prove her right and not stay in a relationship with her. Just looking for a few thoughts on this.
-R00k
I'd move and game many other girls, she has a prior mind set about PUAs and anything you do she's going to analyze carefully which will get to be annoying. If you do get with her be honest and let her know you aren't looking for a relationship
Or, you know, just don't tell every girl you meet that you make getting girls in to bed in to a game (PUA). No one is going to be comfortable being seen as "game". Much the same, you wouldn't be comfortable with a "player" woman that openly tells you she uses boys as toys. There's no need for anyone who's not a close friend to know what you're doing. It will win you a reputation among girls that you don't want.

Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Tue May 14, 2013 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

Just another shit test to see if your actions are congruent with how you portray yourself.

-Wolf

Author:  R00k [ Wed May 15, 2013 12:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

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Just another shit test to see if your actions are congruent with how you portray yourself.

-Wolf
How do i pass this one

Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Wed May 15, 2013 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

You call her bluff, smile and say something like, "Yes, we are completely incompatible.. it'd never work between us. The sex would be amazing, but we'd just end up fighting all the time." (or really anything playful that doesn't take her statement seriously). It also might help to subtly reassure her that you are discreet. Girls love players, but they do not want to be known as "the girl who's dating the player". Girls are very attune to social consequences, much more so than guys.

-Wolf

Author:  andyredsox [ Tue May 28, 2013 11:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

- If you are really serious with this girl, show her that not all Pick up artist are players. Prove to her that you really like her. Show her how different you are with the other players, and prove her wrong.

Author:  R00k [ Wed May 29, 2013 1:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

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- If you are really serious with this girl, show her that not all Pick up artist are players. Prove to her that you really like her. Show her how different you are with the other players, and prove her wrong.
Nah turns out I just had one-itis. Now im trying to figure out how to break up with her easily

Author:  Themagicalone [ Wed May 29, 2013 1:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Pick up = Impossible relationships

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- If you are really serious with this girl, show her that not all Pick up artist are players. Prove to her that you really like her. Show her how different you are with the other players, and prove her wrong.
Nah turns out I just had one-itis. Now im trying to figure out how to break up with her easily
Meet her 1 on 1. Let her know that you wish to end it and state your reasons why and let her know that you should go no contact for awhile because you wouldn't like to give her the wrong idea.

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