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Author:  Jaffabeens [ Tue May 07, 2013 11:23 am ]
Post subject:  Trusting your GF problems . . can it be done? being a PUA?

I've been having such a hard time trusting my GF at the moment. Everything i know about girls, minds, body etc etc like everything,

How can you trust girls again after being a PUA & knowing what girls think & feel & what girls do??

Could you every really trust them??

Need help about my girlfriends past of guys/sex/ & cheating history. . .

Cheers bros

( Anyone been in the same boat? :P )

Author:  d0minantsp3cies [ Tue May 07, 2013 11:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trusting your GF problems . . can it be done? being a P

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I've been having such a hard time trusting my GF at the moment. Everything i know about girls, minds, body etc etc like everything,

How can you trust girls again after being a PUA & knowing what girls think & feel & what girls do??

Could you every really trust them??

Need help about my girlfriends past of guys/sex/ & cheating history. . .

Cheers bros

( Anyone been in the same boat? :P )
Ive been where you are now, although it still does bother me a little because i learned more about female psychology, i've given her the benefit of the doubt.

In the beginning it did stress me... what if this happens... what if that happens. I was paranoid about giving her my heart and having it broken. The same thoughts ran through my head, she cheated once, so what if she does it again, but ive learned to open up and put my heart out there, because without doing so , i wont grow as a person and we can also never have a full relationship. Give her your love but know in the back of your mind , if she fucks up, you can find yourself another one without becoming needy. Every situation is different so observe her and think rationally.

I'd say for about the first year or so, just watch her.... observe what she does closely and learn about who she truly is. Trust her but dont give her your 100% all until you know what kind of character she is. Me and my girl had lots of problems in the beginning, we broke up, but in the end we got back together and it only made us stronger. Alot of problems stem from insecurities, so just learn and become a stronger version of yourself after you do fight.

In the end it comes down to do you know her character well enough and does she deserve your all?. It also depends on how YOU react to certain situations ( not letting insecurities getting the best of you). Trust her until she proves otherwise.

Goodluck

Author:  Themagicalone [ Thu May 09, 2013 3:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trusting your GF problems . . can it be done? being a P

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I've been having such a hard time trusting my GF at the moment. Everything i know about girls, minds, body etc etc like everything,

How can you trust girls again after being a PUA & knowing what girls think & feel & what girls do??

Could you every really trust them??

Need help about my girlfriends past of guys/sex/ & cheating history. . .

Cheers bros

( Anyone been in the same boat? :P )
Ive been where you are now, although it still does bother me a little because i learned more about female psychology, i've given her the benefit of the doubt.

In the beginning it did stress me... what if this happens... what if that happens. I was paranoid about giving her my heart and having it broken. The same thoughts ran through my head, she cheated once, so what if she does it again, but ive learned to open up and put my heart out there, because without doing so , i wont grow as a person and we can also never have a full relationship. Give her your love but know in the back of your mind , if she fucks up, you can find yourself another one without becoming needy. Every situation is different so observe her and think rationally.

I'd say for about the first year or so, just watch her.... observe what she does closely and learn about who she truly is. Trust her but dont give her your 100% all until you know what kind of character she is. Me and my girl had lots of problems in the beginning, we broke up, but in the end we got back together and it only made us stronger. Alot of problems stem from insecurities, so just learn and become a stronger version of yourself after you do fight.

In the end it comes down to do you know her character well enough and does she deserve your all?. It also depends on how YOU react to certain situations ( not letting insecurities getting the best of you). Trust her until she proves otherwise.

Goodluck
What I bolded is the key. Be sure to look for definite warning signs and don't just brush them off. A girls true personality will emerge and if she isn't trust worthy she WILL MESS UP at some point and let you know.

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