Setting:
U.S.A. Miami, FL
We’re both in college,
I’m 19, I've been to 3rd Base before so I know how to escalate,
I've been practicing PUA so I’d say I’m more or less intermediate.
She’s 21 & knows I’m a virgin, she’s not.
She’s a HB8 and her profile is the Nice Girl.
We've only brushed 2nd Base and that’s as far as it goes.
(This is my second official relationship)
Situation:
My Girlfriend and I have been talking for a month, and have been together officially for 3 weeks now. She is completely holding out on me!
I don’t know what to do and I can’t take it, I’m about to just give up and try again in 3 months… (worst case scenario)
I’ve heard of Micro-Escalation, Stealth Seduction, & Freeze Outs
But this is different she is –purposely- holding out. The night we made it official after the second time we've “Grinded” (f*cking with clothes on) I started to rub her over the pants, and she stopped me after 10 seconds of enjoying it. And now 3 weeks in and she still doesn't like to make-out, or do PDA… (FML)
A friend told me that this was because her last relationship was sexually based and that’s why she’s holding out to prevent a mishap.
But this is some BS! I've never dealt with this situation before; I thought older women were supposed to be sexually mature especially since she’s not a virgin. She is stuck on Pop-Kisses, Holding Hands, and loves to Cuddle and supposedly she hasn't had any in six months. Honestly I knew something was up when she didn't know how to kiss on the first night.
This is what I do, I start slow with some kisses, I feel her up a bit, start on some light making-out, and go into the next step.
Problem is I get shut down at the doorstep of making-out...
How can I go any further when I’m getting stuck at make-outs… wtf
And if I try any harder I’ll come off as 100% sexually needy
Conclusion:
I don’t need to bang her at this immediate moment, I just need to figure out how to get to 3rd Base
(Oral Sex, I need some Bj’s Etc.) Can someone please help me and tell me what to do before my nuts explode.
Thank You
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